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So saying that, him planting seeds, it can make anxiety try to burst through the door saying:
“Hey! Since you generally trust him and have been with him for years, he must be right!” SO my brain is fighting my anxiety telling my anxiety is wrong and the doctors are right. Is what I meant by the doubt. The doubt is the anxiety speaking up. I know my anxiety is wrong and my doctor's are right.
I'd be more convinced you were trying to consider the feedback if you engaged at all instead of, as I said, dismissing it out of hand.
Actually it's the other way around . She's becoming a doctor and I'm a mechanic . As of right now she's got hundreds of thousands of student loads we're living off , plus my bi-weekly income . She's also paid for my first years of schooling .
You would really be ok with your spouse touching another, so you're not being touched? If you love your spouse, then you need to figure this out.
I'm sure there are people out there who have the same wants/desires as you but. Your spouse is not one of them. Finding a middle road is mandatory if you want a healthy and happy marriage.
The situation you describe is really setting off alarm bells for me. You must speak with someone right away. Too bad if some’s feathers get ruffled: this is your life. Please know that you will be angry with yourself if something happens to you. You deserve to feel safe.
“…peen pics?”
LOL ? ?
Yes, I agree, the skank ho wants him!
You are absolutely justified to ask for a real explanation. Hers makes no sense. Sorry man.
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You are going to get varied answers on that… What I think is important is that it needs to be discussed and decided on beforehand….
With my SO's family, everybody buys each kid a gift and the adults do a Secret Santa gift. Beyond that it's just extra and your choice/budget.
Back when my family did a Christmas party at my Grandma's, we did that game where you open up a present or steal the last opened present. Sometimes did family gifts or other times just gifts for kids. Then of course grandparents spoiled us kiddos.
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Dude, you are too young to be this miserable over a relationship. Break up with her and find someone else. You will. You're still a teenager.
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True. But every time someone runs a background check on him, it would be on his record. That has a good bit of value.
One of my old exes was an absolutely horrible person. I had to take him to small claims court for something and then later had to file a police report against him for something else.
Years after we broke up, he apparently applied for a job as a paramedic. I got a phone call from someone in the hiring department who was wanting to know about both of those things – they popped up on his background check (among other things). Needless to say, he did not get the job.
I like it when I’m in a bad mood. Don’t speak for others or make assumptions
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Committing assault is the absolute dumbest thing you can do.
it's illegal. it's idiotic, no one thinks you're a big manly man for wailing on a guy. It's not going to make you feel better, or if it does, you need counselling and anger management.
It sucks. But you need to get over it. Trying to exact revenge is pointless. If it helps, they won't be like “OMG he really owned us” they will be “wow how pathetic, look how desperate he is for our attention”.
Best revenge is a life well lived. Move on.
There must be a function for you to get a divorce. If you don't, it's only going to get worse.
It’s usually smoking that does it, not edibles, but cannabinoid hyperemesis is what it’s called
Buy a bigger bed.
Sound to me like she was too drunk to concent and you husband took advantage of her, get him out your house and file for divorce, he raped her. I know you your hurting so your not seeing it like that, but you said yourself you had to help her to the sofa and told him to leave which mean she wouldn't of been able to consent, kick him out tell him your filing for divorce and if he knows whats good for him he will let it happen smoothly and quickly and he rapped your sister and you will be helping her by going to the police
You’re assuming the emotions here are fear, shame, rejection but that’s not necessarily true. You can absolutely love your partner and think they’re gorgeous, while thinking some outfits and some details don’t look the best on them. Why is it bad to point that out? If my gf told me a certain outfit didn’t look the best on me, I would change it because I prefer looking good to her. But if I still wore the same outfit she wouldn’t reject me or shame me for it. So it wouldn’t be because I want to avoid that. It’s not about avoiding rejection but about increasing the attraction, if that makes sense. And it’s not because I fear losing attraction but because I love getting more of it. Expecting your partner to think you look just as good no matter what you do 100% of the time and never point it out sounds pretty ignorant to me.
What tv character do you most remind people of? I need a visual image
I've been in a happy polyamorous relationship for 5 years. My best advice is one, to establish and agree on ground rules early on; communicate very clearly with each other about what behaviors and actions, specifically, your partner is and isn't okay with, and decide what the guidelines are going to be. Let her take the lead on this; it sounds like she's being more than accommodating, so I imagine any boundaries she places on your behavior will be pretty lax.
But make sure you know what her boundaries are, and what — if anything — she's not okay with. Things she might not be okay with you doing include, but are not limited to, the following: having unprotected sex, spending the night, kissing, texting daily, sexting, sex with someone she knows, etc. Let her set the rules, and agree to them. If you break any of them, tell her early on. If she wants to revise any of the rules, let her.
This would be my advice to you. Best of luck.
I read it the same way.
I also find it odd that after 10 years, you aren't living together. Has that topic come up, has either of you expressed a desire to live! together?
If you want to see her more, for god sake make plans with her, or you are just cruising along into oblivion.
Yes you only have your mum, but do you have a plan to leave, mile stones?
You can't complain your GF isn't making you a priority when you don't sound like you even go to see her reguarly
If you stay you will only kick yourself harder for staying. If you foresee yourself never getting over this now, what makes you think you will in a few more years, and by then you'd of wasted those years on him. 2 weeks might still be withing a time frame you can get the marriage annulled.
I read it the same way.
I also find it odd that after 10 years, you aren't living together. Has that topic come up, has either of you expressed a desire to live together?
If you want to see her more, for god sake make plans with her, or you are just cruising along into oblivion.
Yes you only have your mum, but do you have a plan to leave, mile stones?
You can't complain your GF isn't making you a priority when you don't sound like you even go to see her reguarly
“I’d like to say I am not/was not cheating on him & had already blocked all the men I was previously in contact with prior to us dating.”
Does that mean you are or are NOT cheating?
It sounds more like OP's fiance had the general idea that she did want kids and the more they discussed, the less appealing the idea became. That's not a bait and switch, it's a change in what a person wants.
Well good for you lol
We mark it but I’ve never seen anyone wish anybody a happy women’s day.
Clearly the right answer is to break up with her, then maker her your side piece.
I mean, I joke, but only half way. Now, assuming this is real, I get the sense that you could spice up your sex life in this way if you wanted. It's clearly a turn on for her. But obviously these are red flags for your relationship getting serious. If she was getting hard over the idea of being a side piece, seems likely she'd get very hot over switching the roles and finding her own side piece at some point?
First of all – none of this is your fault. It’s not because you’re not attractive, it’s all coming from him.
Second – you kind of have to accept that this is the way things are. He’s likely not going to change. It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth it to stay with him without sex, or while having sex with others if he’s open to it. If it’s not, end it. I’m sorry it sucks