The physical violence is an instant dealbreaker for me, period. This wasn’t some kind of accident, it was intentional and there is no excuse for it.
Now, the risky behavior and trying to leave with another man is a whole other set of red flags. If she did that while you were there what else has she done while you weren’t?
My suspicion is that she’s upset that you’re upset, not that she makes these kinds of choices while “buzzed.”
Really surprised that it took so long to find this kind of answer, I don't stop being shocked of how different is the general perspective of Americans
The physical violence is an instant dealbreaker for me, period. This wasn’t some kind of accident, it was intentional and there is no excuse for it.
Now, the risky behavior and trying to leave with another man is a whole other set of red flags. If she did that while you were there what else has she done while you weren’t?
My suspicion is that she’s upset that you’re upset, not that she makes these kinds of choices while “buzzed.”