For real though, reaching out to her Instagram may net you some more honest answers here. The hot part is if you're going to go that route you have to play diplomat and talk to her as you're both potentially victims of his manipulations, not that she's a homewrecker or terrible person.
Which she might be, but going in hard would be a waste of your time.
Something like “I'm so sorry to reach out unexpectedly but I saw [these things] happen and I'm worried that [husband] may be jerking us both around. Would you mind if we had a chat on the phone/I ask you some questions/etc.., while [husband] is at work?” would maybe open a door though.
How long have you been together? Why would he have done very expensive fertility testing at before you while he was barely 20s and presumably hasn’t been married for years to a anyone else
OP, Also, to me, just discussing this with each other is cheating. They had the nerve and disrespect to ask you when you were in a monogamous relationship.
Honestly, I don't think you can come from this. He cheated. She cheated. They disrespected you.
You claim in not sorry? If I was genuinely sorry what would that look like to you? I’m just acknowledging I can’t undo what I have done but I’m not the same person I was in 2015
I get that and he does hurt me and I get sad and he says I should be mature about it. I’ve tried many ways to overcome my sadness but I’m sensitive. When he sees me sad he does try to be sweet. He’s also older and he has other issues going on. This has happened before and I never wanted to take time away from and neither has he. I do get times where I wanna drop him right away
For real though, reaching out to her Instagram may net you some more honest answers here. The hot part is if you're going to go that route you have to play diplomat and talk to her as you're both potentially victims of his manipulations, not that she's a homewrecker or terrible person.
Which she might be, but going in hard would be a waste of your time.
Something like “I'm so sorry to reach out unexpectedly but I saw [these things] happen and I'm worried that [husband] may be jerking us both around. Would you mind if we had a chat on the phone/I ask you some questions/etc.., while [husband] is at work?” would maybe open a door though.
How long have you been together? Why would he have done very expensive fertility testing at before you while he was barely 20s and presumably hasn’t been married for years to a anyone else
100% agree with this.
OP, Also, to me, just discussing this with each other is cheating. They had the nerve and disrespect to ask you when you were in a monogamous relationship.
Honestly, I don't think you can come from this. He cheated. She cheated. They disrespected you.
The legislature is primarily men, so your argument is invalid.
You claim in not sorry? If I was genuinely sorry what would that look like to you? I’m just acknowledging I can’t undo what I have done but I’m not the same person I was in 2015
I get that and he does hurt me and I get sad and he says I should be mature about it. I’ve tried many ways to overcome my sadness but I’m sensitive. When he sees me sad he does try to be sweet. He’s also older and he has other issues going on. This has happened before and I never wanted to take time away from and neither has he. I do get times where I wanna drop him right away