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Date: October 3, 2022
When it comes time to sign the new rental agreement, tell him you want more space so he’s going to have to find his own place, if he objects just tell him it’s not a break up, you just need you’re own space. Hold firm on just that one point. Once you’re in a new place, if nothing has changed break up and block him. But on no condition should you let him move back in with you unless he actually goes to counseling, individual and couples for at least three years as cheating and promising improvement and then not doing it aren’t things people often fix with out therapy and years of it.
Also get therapy for yourself. When you’re manipulated like he has you, it often is a reflection that you think of and include others (empathy) but struggle to think of and include yourself (boundaries, holding others accountable, speaking up so your needs are also considered). A therapist would be useful to help you better strengthen you’re sense of self so you’re not as easily manipulated in the future.
Here's a life lesson: your mother is going to make that comment for the rest of your life. Get used to it. She's your mom, she loves you, and she's always going to miss you. She also understands that you have a life to online. You aren't letting her down by living your life.
The first thing you need to do is acknowledge your responsibility here. Using passive language like ‘my words shoot to kill’ have an implication that you’re not making a choice to say what you say. Unless you’re running around uncontrollably shooting off at the mouth to everyone when upset, you chose to let your emotions get the better if you with him.
Also the things you learn in therapy need to be constantly worked on – it’s not a surgery that fixes an issue and requires no further work from you. Obviously it’s been beneficial if things have improved – screaming abuse at someone instead of communicating like (I assume) you learned in therapy isn’t going to help