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??????????????? again, a whole lot of words to say you are a victim of your own impulse control. I'm done with you. Keep going through life as a victim, and continue to wonder why people get fed up and leave. Fix your shit.
Practice replies to her nonsense:
You don’t love me! “I do, but I also love ME.”
I worry! “Unless you were a bad mother, you’ve prepared me for life. Let me live!.”
Why don’t you reply immediately? “Because you’ve shown you don’t respect my time and demand immediate replies for trivial things.”
I’m your mother. I deserve respect! “We all deserve respect. Don’t you think I deserve respect too?”
You’ve changed! “Yes”
Have you tried to orgasm by yourself? That's probably the first step you should take if you haven't already. No one can make you feel good if you can't even make yourself feel good.
You do realise there are women who can't even keep water down during their pregnancies? That are constantly exhausted? That have hip problems and can hardly walk? Glad your mum had an easy pregnancy, but that isn't everyone's experience.
Perhaps stop framing it as PERMISSION, and call it what it is. She’s talking about CONSENT. And yes, anything around kissing, hugging, etc. absolutely requires consent.
i’m gonna say most of these comments are waaay out of line. you should definitely have a conversation with her that she should keep a job until it is medically necessary for her not to. if she has recently found out she is pregnant she should get over the beginning symptoms soon and start looking for work again. stress you are worried about bills and financial preparation for your child. she needs to want to provide for said child and working 7 days straight is definitely not fair to you or her. be honest and open about your feelings. give her until she’s out the first trimester to really rest but once second hits, send her on the hunt. she needs to realize you cannot be the one solely preparing for the child. or she needs to find a side hustle. explain that you are not comfortable being the only one providing for family. she might not agree or like your feelings but really pressure her that if she doesn’t need to stay home she absolutely should not. pregnancy is different for everybody but i’ve seen many many pregnant women work fine or find jobs that accommodate to them, side hustles anything. i was one of those women who couldn’t work a job but found a way to get money. communication is very important and once baby is here it will really weigh down on both of you if you can’t be honest with each other and work as a team.
If that makes you feel better.
But it seems like in this case he wants to, I asked him out again, I did not know he has a new girlfriend, and he directly said no, he has a girlfriend, so it appears that he has changed.
I had my first kid at 18 with a guy I barely liked but ended up marrying due to family/religious pressure. We stayed married for 3 years. Had another kid. He was a terrible person and I was just too young and dumb.
It was a terrible experience and it took 15 years to recover from it. I didn't have anybody to tell me it was a bad idea to keep the baby and get married (this was way before social media was a thing, other than chat rooms).
I'm 40 now and although my kids both turned into amazing adults, raising them in a shitty relationship and then as a broke, struggling single mother, I would absolutely not make the same choices if I got a redo.
It's okay to have a medical procedure or to take the pills to stop the growth of cells that cannot survive on their own outside of your body. It's not a baby yet. It's a tiny clump of cells that will become a wrecking ball that forever alters your life.
thank you for your reply. i guess i have a very idealistic view on relationships.
You're 32, you knew she's a sex worker when you started dating and you're mad she doesn't give it up immediately (without a solid back up plan) for you?
You're just as bad as girls thinking they can “fix” the bad boys.
You’re wrong. Get the fuck over yourself
Have you tried recreating your first few dates? Do you woo each other still? Just because you are married, it doesn't mean you both stop dating. Reconnect with what you fell in love with. Nurture that, and I'm sure things will improve
Bro, she is way too old for you, and I’m pretty sure she tried to baby trap you. Never EVER use condoms that someone else bought!!
Definitely get the DNA test and refuse contact with her until it’s done. Please date closer to your age in the future. I know that it seems like it’s not a big deal but it really really can be. A 36 year old woman has nothing in common with a 23 year old man- she doesn’t want anything good from you.
Just keep doing what you're doing. If it's right, the right moment should present itself to you.
Your comments were very enlightening to the situation. I strongly believe you are in the wrong on many platitudes.
Not using any birth control when she specifically doesn't want children. “What happens happens”. Seems to me you were hoping she'd get pregnant. Either way, I'm glad she went and protected herself.
Regarding the house, she told you and you weren't interested. You mentioned you yelled at her while she was trying to discuss it.
You are extremely demanding in this relationship and don't seem to bring much to it (she makes your lunch and you complain its not a “100% fresh bento style” – I'd tell you to get bent). She seems to be protecting herself from you. If I were you I'd go to therapy and hope you can save your marriage in time. You have a lot of work to do on yourself so that you can be a start being a good partner. You both should be working together to build a future together, seeking out conversations to come to an agreement, and prospering.
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How is police responsiveness where you on-line? All alarms in the world don't mean jack if it take police half and hour to arrive. Although do keep in mind most people who would break in would just come steal and get away so having a gun could actually lead to more danger to your life or health. Conversely assuming someone who actually means you hamr decides to invade gun could make a difference. Although it would require it being in easily accesible place which I imagine is not something you would be ok with. If you do have gun I think it would optimal if both of you take effort to become able to use it proficiently (otherwise it can be more of a liability).
He is dragging you back. Shed the excess weight and start living your life.
I mean before he was “chasing you” so he put in effort. Now he “has” you so all the whooing has stopped.
“We talked about filming things before but never tried it” have you even read that?
Dumb question (I’m new to Reddit) I can only see 2 of the 10 comments. Why would that be?
We were a very happy couple before I found out. Do you think he stopped loving me after that?
Yes I’m working really hard right now and I’ll definitely will get my degree, then I’m gonna move away
Lol, so she's got a million issues. You're awesome bc you have one.
Why are you with her? Sounds like you could do so much better.
If she's that bad, it's weird that you would stay with her.
You’re infertile and you have 4kids? Maybe the infertility is recent or you’ve just been blind to the infidelity. I would get dna tested lol.
But accurate.
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OP, I'm glad that you know you should have disclosed your other relationships to your gf at the start. You are going to need to just sit her down and tell her; there will never be a right moment. Even if you're frightened to, this is a moment to exercise trust and transparency and to see how she responds.
Good luck!
Your mom bathing you at 17 is super disturbing, what was her reasoning for this?
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I'm 31 and 22 feels like a whole different life. I have niece's and nephew's in their early 20's. An age gap is ok but you are wayyy to young. It's creepy.
Honey, you not being able to read him is not your fault. You not predicting the abuse is not your fault. Men like him are liars and will put on a front until they’re comfortable to act how they truly are, otherwise they’d never get a second date. You’ve been hoodwinked into thinking he’s a good person when the reality is he never was
I’m with you. These folks that don’t have an honesty-first policy are the sand ones who find themselves in this sort of situation and let themselves “off the hook” on technicalities they themselves determine.
no i didn't and i didnt even went in too deep
Wow, I would’ve walked out the door and never looked back
His actions are the important part in this. He can claim anything, but he isn't putting in the effort then he won't change.
The question is Q. Why are you putting up with this for 2 years? When you clearly have had better partners.
He would rather be gaming, that is his truth, he is 36 and isn't going to magically pay attention to you anymore than he has to and that is the barest minimum.
Please value yourself more and find someone who actually wants to be with you without all this effort and resistance.
Maybe talk to someone about why you are accepting this as a relationship. It might be that as you are 31 you are trying to find a life partner and have chosen him and are chosing to ignore the obvious differences in expectations and values.
Either accept this as your life or don't but thinking he will change is denial on your part, I am sorry to put this harshly but it does appear so in this post.
Yeah I have family members where a marriage was ended by cheating (pretty bad cheating too, with like multiple people) and they had 4 kids together. A few decades later, the kids are all grown up and the divorced couple go on vacations with their adult kids as well as their new partners. Both parents are remarried and bring their spouses to family events. Not everyone can do this, obviously but I think it is admirable that they both kept strong relationships with their kids.
It happens, i totally get it! I wouldnt worry unless theres more signs
We were a financial shithole and I had to work 2 jobs to ends meet.
I was away for 12 hrs at my first job and 6-7 hrs at my 2nd job at night.
I'm confused. If the daughter goes to on-line with her Nan, isn't her behavior just going to be worse? Why would you want that?
So what do you want to do about this? Do you have parents that are involved with you two?
That was an awful response to the question. Obviously you condone cheating.
You are going to need to assert dominance take control’
Then open it up to your family as well.
Women tend to share much more than guys do. I can see why you’re upset but she probably did no more than a lot of us females. Just explain that you want to keep your private life completely private and let it go. She says she feels bad about it so put it in the past.
Do not let him near your bank accounts!!!! Keep him out of your finances. And think about why you are with someone who laughs at you and belittles you over a genuine mistake. You owned up to your mistake and was correcting it and he’s laughing at you because he’s so pissed off? And then basically ignores you and pouts the rest of the day? Please rethink your relationship. And change your passwords on everything. In case he tries something to maybe teach you a lesson in his mind. It may just be me projecting my thoughts/feelings onto y’all and if so, I’m sorry. I apologize. But please keep a vigilant eye out for anything out of the ordinary. Good luck
It’s okay if they don’t find you attractive, not everyone has to. Where I live the alt dudes actually love normie girls more than those of us who are similar to them. It’s just the area, their preferences, etc.
as a heavily tattooed woman who has been in the punk/metal scene most of my life, I say just be who you are. You don’t need to change a thing about your appearance to fit in. I’ve had a lot of close normie friends over the years and we have a great time. They are polar opposites of me but I love them so much but it also took time to get there. I was wary of them at first because I’ve been judged very harshly from a young age so just hang around and be cool! No need to date anyone right off the bat 🙂 good luck!
Put this in your wedding vows.
I mean, she showed you who she is, and then she sent you a message telling you what she is. You’re better off without that person in your life.
Yes.
When they’re older? Yeah not a big deal. But she was 18. By the time I was 21 the freshmen 18 year olds coming into college looked like children to me- because they were when it comes to life experience, maturity, relationship experience, and just general shared activities.
Holy moly, there’s a sub with 54k people with the same exact question! Ha!
Thanks!
Lmao mans let the intrusive thoughts win.
Me neither …it's weird. It really is like wishing him a happy black history month.
She would be a big no for me. She's going to attack your masculinity for life. Can you live with that?
It's like love. You know how they say you'll know when your truly in love. We're you still anxious/scared? Sure, a bit. But you knew.
It's the same way with kids. If you're not sure, you're not ready.
Ooohhh good point and better than the 1 above that suggested changing her oldest kids to have OPs name.
Yeah, your gf is totally wrong and needs to let it go. She, I'm guessing either walked in in the middle of your Mom's conversation, or overheard decided it was about her based on nothing.
She doesn't get to withhold your kids because of a conversation that wasn't even about her. Your Mom did nothing wrong and doesn't deserve to be treated like this.
The odds that the other woman got cancer from HPV and now OP got it are so low…