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Date: November 13, 2022
He’s clearly lying. Entire story is suspicious. Wake up. You seem to be defending him in the comments but everyone else can clearly see he is shady.
2 days. WAY too fast. This smells like someone who will absolutely smother you and then when you get sick of it, stalk you until you get the law involved. Block and move on.
the fact that you said you miss her isn't a good sign. that's over with, sadly. she's either a buddy now, or she's nothing. it's either 100% platonic, or it's nothing.
but if we wanted to explore this a bit, i have questions:
1 do you actually want to be just friends– does that actually appeal to you (or is this just a consolation prize that you're willing to accept)?
2 can you be platonic friends, and never try to 'trick' her into the relationship you originally wanted?
3 when she meets other guys and wants to share that with you, her confidant, will you be able to hear those things and act/ speak in her best interests?
4 can you say for 100% fact that being her platonic friend will not in any way prevent you from meeting, dating other women, and moving on when it comes to your romantic life?
if you can answer a nude “yes” for all of the above then consider it. give it a few days to clear out and reassess how you feel about the above questions. if you're still at yes, then proceed with caution.
if you hesitate to answer “yes” to even part of the above, let it go. there is absolutely nothing wrong with being jealous, and it's mature of you to recognise if a friendship isn't gonna work.
if you cannot do the 'friends' thing, just be honest with yourself and with her, and move on. it'll hurt a lot less, that way.
(also, it's *hurt.)
Yeah it's still devastating though. I don't know what came over me to even suggest something like that as I always been against it. I have a sober mind now and I tried messaging her that it was an impulsive thought and I didn't mean it but I don't think it helped. She did message me yesterday morning saying that it made her feel like she wasn't enough in our relationship and it hurt her. I tried reassuring her too but it didn't seem to help much. We're currently on a temporary long distance situation, which was why I started looking at porn in the first place” but I never thought this would ever happen.
No it’s really not irresponsible, I merely suggested it could be a possible explanation- I never said definite. Why is it so outlandish and offensive to you to consider this? There is a genetic link and regardless of your denial of the content of the post, it’s in there, possible tantrums, meltdowns, communication issues that could be linked to autism. As for whether said her partner had autism or not, maybe it’s gone under the radar and she hasn’t considered that this.
I don’t think I’m misreading you at all, you’ve been quite confrontational from the outset, determined to view anything I say from a really negative lens. Makes me wonder what stakes you personally have in this?
Anyway, I’m blocking you. Bye.
Exactly! I struggle to see how/when/why that would ever come up and why it would matter if they've agreed not to have children. He's not mad she “lied” to him, he's mad he now realizes he has no way to forcibly impregnate her. That sounds like a scary individual.
I have one. I can't link it to this post due to group rules. If you are genuinely interested, you can find it on my profile.
Make sure to let his know how he reacts when you reject him! Because I guarantee he won't take it well based on all the other details lmao
Having a hobby that you’re passionate about is essential in my book towards long term happiness. Yes you’re being selfish, but that’s okay in a limited capacity. I’ll take your word that the bulk of the hobby’s expense is the upfront cost for equipment. In that case, this deal sounds like a steal. I very much understand the financial position you’re in (comfortably paying for everything and adding to savings but can’t afford much else beyond that). In this case, you need to get deeper on your wife’s feelings. Does she feel like she can’t enjoy what she likes to do? Does she overstress about finances so every little thing weighs a lot on her? What would she like to do with the money if you did sell the xbox for money instead? Is there a way for you to still achieve whatever goal that is?
He might be lying. It’s not out of the question.
He might be (and this is at least as likely) remembering the past in the least unflattering light: our self-esteem can only handle so much negative exposure, and taking eight months stabilizes what was in all probability at least a tawdry and inappropriate rebound workplace relationship.
Either way, it’s always your last happy day when you decide to accuse a partner of lying. If he’s generally truthful and honest with you and himself, I wouldn’t die on this hill. If he’s squirrely, especially about things that threaten his ego, this matters much more.
Good idea. There are many good cookbooks and recipe sites with simple, healthy meals that don't take long to prepare. She sounds too lazy to even try them though.
Yeah I will definitely leave her alone, its just really nude to. Thank you!
You were being rude. And your comment isn’t really helpful. You’re saying Love-tea is okay with cheating when she said she wasn’t.
If you can’t understand that you can be personally against something but friends with people who do that thing, I don’t know what to tell you.
You were being rude. And your comment isn’t really helpful. You’re saying Love-tea is okay with cheating when she said she wasn’t.
If you can’t understand that you can be personally against something but friends with people who do that thing, I don’t know what to tell you.
I dunno. It could be nothing. Maybe she freaked out that you would be angry they even spoke. You sound pretty reasonable and understandable but people always don’t react the best. It doesn’t sound like she is talking to him much or that it is significant.
Nope. Let her cry it out but NOPE!!!! A break up was in order. If the genders were reversed, folks would say to “break up with him/leave him/ you deserve better.”
Op, let her have her fun and pls get tested. You caught her today. Who's to say this isn't her pattern of behavior.
Nope!!! You did the right thing. That apology is for her. Now you both can move on.
It’s been 4 months and we’ve dialled it down to anxiety being the main cause, our issues is me helping him overcome that anxiety
Grasping at straws, I see.
They’re trying to be clear with you that you lack self respect.
You’re casually ignoring what constitutes a healthy boundary in a relationship and devaluing friendship. The fact that OP is a grown man bears no significance on the quality of the choices his partner presented him with.
Hmm, i'd have to say i dissagree. Sure, it's not a 3rd date joke or even 30th date joke. But if you've been together for a while, and you're sure that your partner knows that you love them, and their body, it could be a funny joke. It depends on how comfitable you are with each other.
I'm about to be blunt af to you.
You failed at finding a relationship for whatever reason. That's fine. Whatever. You somehow managed to get a girlfriend. Now you are about to fail at that too because of resentment. Boy you don't have resentment for her. You have resentment for yourself for failing so many times.
Go to therapy and deal with the issues you have for yourself. Because these are being directed at her for YOUR supposed short comings.
Because you are about to fail at a relationship. And good luck getting another one with your shitty outlooks.