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Birth Date: 2003-08-28
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Date: November 13, 2022
he didn’t even warn me lol but i’m not even frustrated lol i’ll just have to tell him again when he wakes up
You've been with the same person for 8 years and you're only 24. It makes sense that you can't see yourself outside of this relationship because you haven't ever existed outside of it. The dynamics of this relationship were defined when you were 16-19 years old. You are both in your mid 20s but your relationship is operating on the vestiges of an immature teenage relationship. I mean, if you were to start a new relationship as an adult it would be very different from the one you find yourself in today. I seriously doubt that you would choose to be in a relationship that functions like this one does. It's like a company that is using ancient software to operate. Over the years programmers have made a myriad of additions on top of the existing antiquated software to allow for certain tasks to be completed. Now, you've got this unwieldy beast of a system that can't operate efficiently. No designer would ever purposely engineer a system that functions in these ways. To get things working at optimal efficiency the whole damned thing needs to be redesigned from scratch based on the current and projected needs of the company. This might be where you are today in this relationship.
Case in point, despite living together and being in a relationship for 8 years you don't even know the names of his friends. You have no relationship at all with his closest cohorts and you don't have the first clue what he does when he isn't with you. That's absolutely bonkers. How is your relationship supposed to grow when your lives are so heavily compartmentalized? What is hiding from you? Why is he hiding you?
If my GF refused to integrate me into other parts of her life, I would end a relationship before the 6 month mark. After 8 years, don't you feel like a caged canary?
He could've continuously pushed her boundaries and not respected when she did indicate in real time that she did not want contact. After 3 years it might've been her breaking point and she felt she had to establish verbal boundaries because he was so inept. He even admitted in a comment as much. It's really not that complicated.
Sorry, it's been very confusing for me as well. They are not divorcing but always threaten each other with it. I understand it's none of my concern who she talk to, but it has interfered with me since she hasn't been faithful to my father and has pulled me into keeping it a secret.
They are still together. My issue is my mother has put me in a situation where I need to keep her secrets of inappropriately speaking to other men coworkers and being in love with either someone else or the idea.
To your direct question? NO.
I don't think your husband values YOU, as a person. On one hand he lords his higher income over you as an excuse not to do his fair share around the house. On the other hand, he asks you to…… quit your job? These two choices of his are contradictory. Please consider what your long term future will be like before you have children with this man. He denigrated your work and your income, while trying to make you unemployed – and therefore 100% reliant on him – at the same time. There is no positive context that explains such behavior. Once kids are involved you will be trapped – by finances, by guilt – and it will be much harder to leave. I think your bullshit meter is going off, and that you should trust it.
You talked to him. It didn't change so you end it.
Honesty is always the best policy. Just tell her. It's not even a big deal.
Ehh… Aren't you the moron here? Their situation is different. Blue and green can't result in a child having brown eyes, while brown and green can result in blue.
I mean, every body is different. Some people need to shower everyday, and for some people that would absolutely wreck their skin. Some people need prescription strength deodorant, some people don't need any.
If you, the person she is sexually intimate with, only noticed because of sight and not smell, then smell clearly isn't an issue. And if she were having multiple yeast infections/UTIs, you would know about it, so that's not a problem either.
Should she change her underwear more frequently? Probably. But you can't really fault her for doing something that, for her, has been working just fine.
I agree with all the posters here. She is not ready for a relationship. I think it would have been fine if she had told you that you were moving too fast, or she wanted consent before each kiss. What doesn't work is that brought a friend with her.
I think let her go. I also don't think when she call you, that you should get back with her. I think if you ultimately want to be with her, either be platonic friends for a year, or let someone else be her first for everything.
See you at the gym brother ?
To sum up
As soon as 3 months in, he started guilt tripping you and pushing you to have sex all the time even when you didn't want it
He was too rough and hurt you during sex every time, despite you begging him not to
7 months in he blindsided you with a public proposal and threw a huge tantrum when you said you weren't ready
y'all split for 2 months during which he creepily stalked you wherever you went
he pretended to change for 5 months, so you married him
Every single time you've posted on reddit, everyone has told you to run. Why do you keep posting? Let me make it easier for you. No matter what you say about this guy, the advice will be exactly the same. Leave. Him.
Get off the lease.
Depends how strongly you feel about your boyfriend. You will have regrets either way. It’s an impossible choice, right. Is this man your forever person? Or is he someone you’re very fond of and have dated for 5 years, or something in between? Might be worth having The Conversation with him to see where he thinks things are headed, and where you guys want to take it. Like, if you want to watch daytime television with him when you’re old then sacrificing it for a job might be a bit stupid. But if you don’t feel that strongly, then what are you really losing.
With my first wife, I would have taken the job. Having gotten the practice marriage out of the way and now being married my life partner, I wouldn’t even consider it.
If you’re trying to make this decision without his input then it seems like you should probably go.
What happens if dad and L have a baby that L dotes on and treats like royalty? What if that baby cries and annoys your gf? She's shown no remorse at all for the dog and babies die of SIDS all the time would be a plausible excuse for her….something to think about. I would definitely tell her father about the dog. Your gf has some incredibly serious mental issues that need to be addressed immediately before more serious damage can be inflicted.
The way people showed their judgment (good or poor) in the past is important to me.
Maybe it's her past, she did some swinging parties or was a sex worker, but I wouldn't want to be with this person. It's also my right.
Like I heard a guy say that he wouldn't want to be with a trans person. Well, her past is her past, but I still would want to know.
Sometimes we blame ourselves in breakups and think there’s something fundamentally wrong with us, when it’s just we werent with the right person. Wanting more “drama” in a relationship sounds like your ex has some growing up to do.
Honestly keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t change who you are just to get any woman. Keep being true to yourself and you will find the right woman who is meant to be.
Well, let's start with: “What do I do now?”
You take care of a child that is coming into this world, or, you and your gf talk to see if an abortion is a possibility if you both agree that having a child together isn't the best option for you both.
Then, there's this: “But two months is a bit early to propose.”
You don't have to propose. You both can decide to stay together without being married, at least, for a period of time until you deem marriage is appropriate and viable. As for the two months, it wasn't too early to get her pregnant, so, yeah.
As for: “What’s the best way to move forward with this?”
Obviously, you both need to decide what you are going to do with your coming child. Either she has it and you help take care of it with her, or, you both decide that an abortion is the better way to proceed. That is for you both to decide (best case scenario), or, her to decide if you two conflict on a decision (ie, her choice takes priority). Then, I'd suggest using birth control in the future if having kids together is something neither of you want.
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