If your needs aren’t being met, then this isn’t the relationship for you. You deserve to be heard and have your needs respected by your partner.
I’d read “attached”. It’s a fairly quick read (or audiobook) and has some excellent advice for communicating about our needs and understanding how we “attach” to other people (and how they attach to us).
Sounds like she had no intention of paying you back. She will drag it out and I doubt you will ever get your money or if you do she will be a drama over it. Don't offer again.
What advice are you looking for here? This read like a summary and if there was a request, I missed it.
Seems like you wasted your time and you need to trust your gut more in the future, imo.
If your needs aren’t being met, then this isn’t the relationship for you. You deserve to be heard and have your needs respected by your partner.
I’d read “attached”. It’s a fairly quick read (or audiobook) and has some excellent advice for communicating about our needs and understanding how we “attach” to other people (and how they attach to us).
Sounds like she had no intention of paying you back. She will drag it out and I doubt you will ever get your money or if you do she will be a drama over it. Don't offer again.
Bump
I don’t think that violence or “to threat” him, it’s a good idea