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Date: November 11, 2022
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You shouldn't feel anything.
His marriage is over and he isn't going back. Some people hang on to such mementos for a variety of reasons. When my marriage ended I didn't keep any wedding photos. Twenty years after the event, I no longer have any feelings attached to the wedding but I do regret not keeping photos of friends and family who have since passed away. It also chronicled a time when I could actually grow hair on top of my head.
You aren't competing with his past. You definitely are the person he chooses to spend his time with in the present and immediate future which can't be ignored. You also sit in the pole position for his long term romantic future.
Focus on what you share and what you're building. His past is part of him, the him that you fell in love with.
If you have been with him happily for all these years that’s what is important here. Think of it as a funny story from the start of your relationship and nothing more.
This reminds me of when my husband and I JUST started dating. We were at a restaurant and I wanted to try some of his food, he lifted his fork with the tongs pointed toward me so I assumed he was trying to feed me so leaned over and ate it off his fork. He got all flustered and red and said “I meant for you to grab the fork.” So I guess some people pass forks tongs first?
She’s got a crush on your husband. Your husband needs to be aware and take steps to avoid that. If he feeds into the attention, then you may have issues.
That's frightening. If that's a fear that runs through your head, then don't be afraid to take precautionary measures, but you really need to keep ignoring him at the very least. I thought there was a way to setup messages so there's no notification from certain people, so you can probably do that if you don't want to see it. Then he's not blocked and you don't need to see
I need more info here. Are you waking him up and he's kicking you. Or is he kicking you and he's still asleep cos you've touched him and disturbed him and he doesn't like being touched when he's asleep and he's unknowingly lashing out?
It absolutely isn’t and anyone who’d tell you it was aren’t the types you’d want down there anyway ?
Even if you didn’t have the jaw thing it would be fine but especially since you do it’s incredibly reasonable
It’s not like oral sad has equivalent exchange rules where if you get it you have to give the same right back
Guys who aren’t complete assholes will be understanding and not make a big deal about it because it is not a big deal
I am feeling guilty I was just too scared to say anything. I am remorseful
Yes it’s possible. People saying the reasoning she didn’t was because she told you about the test are weird though. You can cheat on someone and still tell them about a positive test to not create unknown danger for them. Chlamydia is a weird disease that can lay dormant in your body for months, I know someone who randomly tested positive 4 months after their last sexual encounter. If you trust her and she’s telling you that she didn’t cheat maybe you need to just trust her ?
You're so right about all of this. I've really suffered a loss of identity.
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Clearly HE has chosen her. You knew he was still seeing her and in love with her. He's doing the right thing and what he has chosen to do. Either he still loves her and genuinely wants it to work with her, he's a jerk stringing her along even further wasting her chance at children, or he's going to have kids with her, lie to her about loving her, and keep his mistress.
He is very open to her about his feelings for me. He straight out told her that he is miserable without me. Of course he loves her, he isn't a monster. He's just no longer romantically in love with her, but it seems like she is adamant about having kids and is willing to ignore the fact that he is in love with me. He is literally doing the noble thing to stay with her because that's what SHE wants.
Do you really want to be that woman pathetically chasing a married man? Wrecking a marriage? Do you really think that's a healthy start to a good relationship?
Pretty sure their marriage was wrecked beforehand.
So he wants to keep his wife and mistress, and you want to keep being his side piece? Do you think he's a good guy for stringing you along while staying with his wife? While they have kids? Will you be the cause to break their kids hearts?
He doesn't want to be with her, he wants to be with me. He just feels guilty for not having giving her kids while he was busy having cancer.
Dude you are getting so played here. Make some boundaries. No more photo shoots unless you are there. That'll make it clear really quickly what her intentions are. If she says no then I would separate. Absolutely.
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He is 18, and is old enough to make his own decision.
Well if I date someone I definitely would be bothered if they drink too much yes. For my boyfriend his porn addiction has become a problem in the past before, that's why I don't like it. Purity culture? It's the opposite thing lol. Because I love sex and appreciate it I know that porn sells am image of sex that is not real. Sex is not porn and porn is not sex, it's acting.
I think you need to dump him. You are not as much of a priority I'd his ex. How long do you want to wait around for him to care about and value you?
I see more heartache in your future if you don't cut ties to third dude.
I had regulars within 2 months, but I’m not suggesting anything, no.
Aww the big smart mans help wasn't needed by the tiny silly woman kmt that's his problem that you didn't need him nor fall for his patronising
7 years and not anytime soon… 7 years….
Op a house is bigger commitment than a wedding.
But you also want a marriage. That’s a non-negotiable in your eyes.
Tell him you want to marriages before ever making a bigger commitment like buying a house. That it’s more important.
Tell him houses will come and go, but you two are forever, that you want the next level commitment as proof of this.
You’re certainly entitled to your opinion but in this particular situation your opinion holds no water. Feel free tell your partner that you feel her daughter is showing too much skin if you feel it’s necessary. I’d say maybe give some thought about how that situation may play out for you before diving into that convo. Also give some thought about how your own biases and perceptions about women showing skin influences that opinion.
Sounds like you’re normalizing cheating. Enjoy whatever toxic relationship you’re in.