Honey, keep your money separate, where he does not have access. I’ve been married 32 years and from day one we’ve had separate bank accounts. Money is one of things we don’t argue over. Your husband cannot be trusted with money. That was sooo wrong on his part.
Also never loan money that you cannot afford to give away. If you can afford it do it with the expectation of never seeing your money again.
“I'll go on the date with your sister if you let my close friend stay here with you while you're “sick”. You know, in case there's an emergency.”
Except your friend that really likes him and you’re jealous that he hit it off with her so won’t be buying you drinks anymore
In situations like this, I usually recommend rehoming the girlfriend.
Glad your two year old is getting better!
My advice is that you both grow up and ditch the codependency bullshit. Who the fuck stays on the phone all night? Lol. Toxic as hell.
Honey, keep your money separate, where he does not have access. I’ve been married 32 years and from day one we’ve had separate bank accounts. Money is one of things we don’t argue over. Your husband cannot be trusted with money. That was sooo wrong on his part.
Also never loan money that you cannot afford to give away. If you can afford it do it with the expectation of never seeing your money again.