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Date: November 10, 2022
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I would ?lock the bedroom door and get some rest. You’ve done plenty more than I would have done for him already. He was wreckless and it’s not your job to care for him. If this happens more than once, I would break up with him.
He definitely dont like jokes. He gets upset easily. I know I shouldn’t like playfully bully him or anything bc he will get angry. But the racist part is what made me worried
He will do what you allow it's time to put your wings on and fly before he cages you in his cage
Ok, thanks!
right. he is projecting.
By asking her too often or showing that you’re obsessing and insecure you may be pushing her away. You need to find a way to step back a little. Worrying about whether she may leave you will drive you crazy for no reason. You can’t control it, so find a way to distract yourself when you have those obsessive thoughts.
she got this violent with you just because you (reasonably) asked her to stop talking during a movie. she didn’t hesitate and doesn’t seem to regret it. how likely is it really that you’re the only person who has ever been a victim of her violence and lack of control? abusers like this very rarely stuck to one act of violence towards one person. there could easily be multiple other people in her life being abused by her. for the sake of you and everyone else around your sister, press charges.
make copies of the video to send to another device to make sure it’s safe, go to an urgent clinic to have someone check your bruises (even if you don’t think they’re that bad, it’s better to have a record of a professional checking you), also take pictures of your bruises now for further evidence. stop downplaying this. this is really serious. she could’ve killed you. hell, maybe she wanted to, idk. you screamed at her to stop and she didn’t. that says something. and the fact that all your parents tried to do was get your phone with the evidence of the event on it instead of helping you definitely says something too.
you didn’t deserve this. nothing you might’ve done as a kid or as an adult makes you deserving of this. there is absolutely no excuse for abuse.
Woman here, I’ve never heard of a woman using condoms for masturbation. I know it’s a preference for some men for obvious reasons but I’m not even sure how this would work for women. Women of reddit, is there some cool condom masturbation trick I haven’t heard of?
Not enough info really, it seems that he is probably cheating, but he could also just be stupid and trying to hid something else – gambling, drugs, a second job because he made bad financial decisions, an event he’s planning for you as a surprise (okay the last is a very large stretch)
You really just need to sit him down, tell him that you have seen his actions lately have been suspicious, and that you deserve an honest conversation about what is actually going on. Tell him that if he doesn’t tell you the truth, or tries to trickle truth you, that you will be asking him to leave, until you decide to divorce or get therapy for the marriage.
When you get the truth, you then can decide what you want to do. Therapy is probably a good start, but you might find that divorce is the only option if he has done anything that you can’t reconcile.
I love that song because it's pop culture giving credence to the advice I'm constantly giving my daughters. “You have to shave your legs? Sure, if you really want to, but do you know why you want to? That's right, because a bunch of rich, old white men get richer when you think it's embarrassing to have leg hair.”
It’s always hard for me to put things into words and this helped me put my understanding of her feelings into words so thank you, my gf felt very understood and we solved the problem.
Ok, here's my take as a guy.
The test, or any test, for that matter, translates instantly to us as “I can't trust this person because anything and everything could be a test.” If you want to find something out, wait until it naturally comes out or straight up ask.
If this guy, or any guy, shows controlling tendencies and it comes out, you are free to leave the relationship any time. No need to test.
What you did was a trap for him because if you did a “harmless test” like that, all he is thinking about is “what else might she test me on and will future tests be “harmless” like this was supposed to be?”
You're immature and your friend is immature. Men want transparency not games.
Are you open to her being in a relationship with another girl? Else u could be part of that relationship too. Uni is about exploring
He fits the profile of an abuser. His treating you nicely now is the honeymoon stage; next will be walking on eggshells; a blow up will occur which triggers the abuse..Abusers also isolate their victims from family and friends. Your mother more than likely will welcome you back into her life. Reconcile with her as soon as possible. You need her now. Do not tell this man you are leaving. While he is out of the house, pack your belongings and find a way to your mom's if you don't have transportation. If an abuser catches the victim leaving, it will definitely escalate the violence.
Yea, that’s fair to say. Something to think about. Thanks
This is a wild situation you put yourself in. True story. My dad married a widow with 5 kids. Then they had me. Her husband had died of cancer. So Thanks Dad. My mom was an exceptional woman. She was a main character type of person. All I can say is your girlfriend better be an amazing woman. My mom sure was. On the other hand, on paper this is a looser decision for a man. If you were my son I would tell you to really think about this because the risk/reward is really stacked against you. The best answer I can give is the heart wants what it wants. As far as explaining anything to anyone, your a grown man and answer to no one so fuck ‘em. Do what makes you happy. Will another man’s 5 kids make you happy? What’s her backstory? 5 different kids from 5 different men or what? How did she become a single mom of 5? What’s the baby daddy situation? I think context matters too.
Sounds like he’s repeating the emotional manipulation/blackmail that sent his ex to the mental institution.
Threatens that she cannot leave, but if she stays it must be his way and that he is calling all the shots. Wants to force an abortion. Even just living with his parents who hate her… this won’t end well.
Honey, you shouldn't be hurt, you should honestly be terrified. To say you are unreacting to this is a HUGE understatement.
You need to prioritize your own wellbeing and safety and to that end, you need to start planning your escape NOW. Nothing else matters. When he's not around, gather a bug out bag of your essentials, important docs, meds, small keepsakes, everything else? Forget about it. I know it's hard, but it's just stuff. Figure out a safe place to go-local friends or family who you absolutely can trust. Go there. Once there contact a lawyer immediately. If you can, find one who specializes in domestic violence because make no mistake he's abusive-emotional and psychological abuse is abuse. Listen to your lawyer who will likely advised NC.
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