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This is kinda how I felt. I mean we are both pretty mature I would say, and I know people who have been through similar situations. Guess sometimes it just helps to have reassurance about that stuff.
Also think that sort of way of thinking is fading out with the so called hook up culture nowadays.
Your husband sounds like an insecure little bitch, really.
Then you need to let her know that you don't see this relationship as a long term relationship or leading to marriage.
What she is saying is she saw this relationship leading to something permanent, which meant that she would be, eventually, moving into this house and contributing to your household. She is, probably, thinking as such she would, at least, have some input into it.
I don't think she is trying to control your spending, I think she is thinking that, at least, taking her opinion into consideration is showing an investment in your future together. By not involving her at all you are, clearly, stating that you don't expect her to be a part of your future.
This is a case of, “can I ” vs. “Should I.”
Can you? Absolutely.
Should you? That depends.
I think you and her are on two different pages. You don’t see buying a house as a large step in a marriage, she does. Her viewpoint is indeed popular in the relationship world versus yours because it’s a large financial and relation investment. Typically large investments are made between married couples or people who intend to get married/be together for a long time. And most people date to get to this end goal of marriage. It sounds like this isn’t your end goal with her. To be honest, two years is quite a bit of time to get to know someone and whether or not you’ll think of marrying them.
Shut off the WIFI AND CABLE. She does not deserve luxuries while refusing to do the bare minimum as a mother and partner. Tell her you can't afford them anymore while paying for daycare. If she wants them back she needs to get a job and pay for them. I would also flat-out tell her that I don't like how she's treating me or our son and if it continues, divorce papers will greet her very soon.
Showering twice a week is completely inadequate and your wife needs to understand that her poor hygiene is an issue.
For some reason, people that neglect their hygiene always seem to react defensively when told about it rather than being mortified. I’m not sure how you can get through to her other than to stop tip-toing around and tell her gently but firmly that you do love her and are attracted to her but her poor showing schedule is a turn-off and it would be for almost anyone.
Relationships don't always stay exciting. You become used to them and they become a normal part of your life that you expect. You can't really rely on a long-term partner to provide all the excitement in your life.
That being said, it really sounds like you feel unfulfilled and are remaining in your relationship out of habit/comfort/the bond that you've built with him even though you feel that it's probably not the relationship for you. I think if you don't leave and explore something new, you'll never get rid of your current feeling. It will always nag at you.
This summer sounds like a great time to do that. You can use that opportunity as a stepping stone to help you make the decision and see how you feel away from your bf. Or you can just end things now if you're pretty sure it's the right decision.
As for the date nights, it sounds like your partner just isn't into them. If you can't get any affection or effort out of your partner – then I definitely see why you feel unfulfilled. That doesn't sound like a relationship you should stay in.
At the same time, it's important to have some balance. You want him to put effort into something you enjoy that brings you both together. Do you do the same with something he enjoys? I'm not accusing you of being hypocritical, but if you're viewing these date nights as something “for both of you” and you're the only one who enjoys them, then you might want to think about that. Though this is probably a moot point given the bigger issue here.