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Date: November 8, 2022
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You need to just be direct i think. Something like “look, i found these messages in your old phone when i was cleaning up, and first things first, i apologise for invading your privacy like that. I fucked up on that, if you're upset about it i understand and will hear your feelings about it, but also, i would like to discuss some of the things i found because they were a little distressing to me”, and then try to keep the conversation calm and non-accusatory. It sounds like shes got some explaining to do, and you shouldn't have to hold her hand through it, but you're unlikely to get the answers you want if you go at her with hostility.
your fiancé is a sociopath and I hope this is fake cause I can't imagine someone as evil as both her father and her exist
I think you are right. I texted him yesterday to see if he was ok and he never texted me back.
Almost everyone is saying she is controlling you. I don't see that in your texts.
She told you 3 weeks after you both decided to become exclusive. This is a good time to realise what you want and don't want in a relationship. She feels uncomfortable with your ex and that is her right. Also you have the right to tell her you don't want to cut her off.
as she can't learn to accept it in the future.
See, she doesn't want that for her and doesn't say “I forbid you…”. She says “I can't learn to accept it in the future”. That is sooo different. The second sentence is mature.
I also discussed all the topics that need to be said at the beginning of the relationship with my bf. We both agreed on so many things. We also told each other if one is uncomfortable with something, we either come to a compromise or we end it. That's not controlling.