People change interest change it sounds like the two of you need to seriously work on communicating get a counselor and if he is still not willing to work on your relationship then you do what’s best for you
So sorry for all of the things you have had to go through at such a young age. Your gf doesn’t sound emotionally mature . Maybe she’s never faced any trauma in her own life and isn’t sure how to process what happened with you. But you opened up and were vulnerable,so whatever her reasons her reaction was wrong. Even after she heard about your trauma she should have put her feelings aside for a moment and support you.
I’ve had very close relationships that have ended and changed into friendships, it just takes communication and maturity. My issue is I dont know if that will be possible for her, and knowing that is making it naked to take the necessary next steps. You’re right though I suppose in me needing to accept responsibility.
If that’s what it’s like in the first 3 months it is only gonna get worse (much worse). In the first 3 months even the worst relationships normally have fireworks in the bedroom. It ain’t gonna get better.
Fellow bi/pansexual here. If it’s something that is really eating you up inside, it may be better to tell her. And if she doesn’t like it then maybe she was never really the one. Like you said, you have no intentions of acting on it.
I found out that she has mentally issue but won’t admit it because she will not go to the doctor for any health issues. And I know that she’s testing me but whenever I’m that situation, it’s like she’s someone else.. And the guilt always kick in and I have to try to calm her down.
I went to the doctor today and we came up with a plan, it’s a long term plan but I hope it will be good! And she doesn’t have any family here, her mum is in another state that she wants to move to so it’s a bit naked to break up.
I would be interested to see a breakdown of how many of the people saying the guy is an asshole are women and how many of the people saying this is no big deal are men. I suspect you're right.
i had 6 by age 20, i’m 23 and 7 & that’s because i’m in a committed relationship. as long as you are safe and clean, that is not a problem
People change interest change it sounds like the two of you need to seriously work on communicating get a counselor and if he is still not willing to work on your relationship then you do what’s best for you
Hey, give her some credit, she's worried about future pregnancies. The volleyball team isn't going to assemble itself.
So you were not official? I mean it sucks but you weren’t together and he didn’t really cheat physically
Thats good to hear!!!
Makes it even weirder that he’d say that he doesn’t want to make you uncomfortable then.
How about you tell the poor girl? If this nukes your relationship, the trash took itself out.
So sorry for all of the things you have had to go through at such a young age. Your gf doesn’t sound emotionally mature . Maybe she’s never faced any trauma in her own life and isn’t sure how to process what happened with you. But you opened up and were vulnerable,so whatever her reasons her reaction was wrong. Even after she heard about your trauma she should have put her feelings aside for a moment and support you.
That’s some good ideas thank you
I’ve had very close relationships that have ended and changed into friendships, it just takes communication and maturity. My issue is I dont know if that will be possible for her, and knowing that is making it naked to take the necessary next steps. You’re right though I suppose in me needing to accept responsibility.
I had suggested that but that’s a no go.
Lol “argumentative and masculine” what does that even mean?
Lol “argumentative and masculine” what does that even mean?
Thank you for the correction, I'm a little disturbed right now.
If that’s what it’s like in the first 3 months it is only gonna get worse (much worse). In the first 3 months even the worst relationships normally have fireworks in the bedroom. It ain’t gonna get better.
Fellow bi/pansexual here. If it’s something that is really eating you up inside, it may be better to tell her. And if she doesn’t like it then maybe she was never really the one. Like you said, you have no intentions of acting on it.
Honestly .. as soon as I saw the title I had to say something .. girl if that were my man he’d be gone … even if I was dependent on him .
I found out that she has mentally issue but won’t admit it because she will not go to the doctor for any health issues. And I know that she’s testing me but whenever I’m that situation, it’s like she’s someone else.. And the guilt always kick in and I have to try to calm her down.
I went to the doctor today and we came up with a plan, it’s a long term plan but I hope it will be good! And she doesn’t have any family here, her mum is in another state that she wants to move to so it’s a bit naked to break up.
I would be interested to see a breakdown of how many of the people saying the guy is an asshole are women and how many of the people saying this is no big deal are men. I suspect you're right.
Honestly it sounds like your GF needs therapy if you both are going to have a healthy relationship