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Date: November 7, 2022
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INFO: Why do you want to marry her?
I am sorry your trust was broken in such a cruel thoughtless manner. I can't imagine how very hot it is for you. It's made even worse by the fact those two can't even leave you alone so that you can heal and take the time to get your bearings. If it's feasible I would look into changing your number, and letting the people you want to have your number know they are not to give your phone number without checking with you (I know it should be common courtesy, but people don't always use it). Definitely rally around good friends and family. I hope the best for you!!!
The way this reads is that the adderall probably boosted his confidence and motivation, but he acted on something that did interest him, regardless of the adderall. But when you started talking to another guy, reality set in and he changed his mind. But instead of admitting that, he either severely lacks emotional self awareness that he’s clueless about his feelings or how to articulate them, OR he’s defensive, conflict avoidant, or feels ashamed and doesn’t want to admit to those feelings.
You tell your parents to back the fuck off that's how. You keep referring to what they said and how they feel so you're not getting it. WHO CARES WHATG YOUR PARENTS SAID OR THINK. He is an ADULT. Your parents should keep their opinions to themselves. If I were your bf, I would nope right the fuck out of this situation.
This is your bf. He is showing you who he is and giving you a preview of what life looks like with him.
You either need to accept him as a lazy, unambitious, moody complainer who intends to mooch off you or you kick him to the curb and find someone else.
I'll have a lot to say about this because i'v been in the exact same situation.
One advice here is to completely cut any bond. I would sit them all down, tell all of them how I feel exactly about this girl and them all, what I think she is and where I think she stands (obviously it's all bad words lol).
There isn't much left to do. I think you got all the hints you needed that your family is using you for their entertainment. Don't be fooled, they aren't stupid and clearly seeing the issue here. But you've swallowed it up for so long they expect you to keep doing it and them to have their fun. They also showed how much love they want from you. They are willing to break you down for fun, even if it means you'll hate them. We can assume they're projecting their feelings about you on you. It's a common way for “low value” people to free themselves of guilt.
But all in all, you know better. If you think your family deserves you to put some effort into that, you can always stand up for yourself and shut her down. Just give her a taste of her own medicine. You could also try digging around her life and expose her on things she wouldn't want known. This and straight up calling her a trashcan should both start calming her down a bit.
You're not in high school anymore. You're not clueless anymore. You know this is wrong, and you know you are to blame for nothing. You have the right and duty to shut down attempts to hurt you. Wether it's by confronting her or completely erasing her from your life, they are both valid solutions and nobody but you can decide which one is the right one.
Do you really believe that her friend is really going? I think thisnwas a trip to spend the weekend with the guy.