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Date: November 7, 2022
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Do NOT transfer your assets. The relationship advice is good in this thread but this is HORRIBLE legal advice. During your divorce this will be seen by the court as hiding money and is one of the big factors leading to alimony and larger settlements.
I know this sucks, but stay in your house. Don’t hide money. Take care of your daughter. And don’t cheat on your wife until you have a legal separation. Keep in mind that in the eyes of the law, you are married and seeing someone else would still be “cheating”. While you are at it, gather proof of her relationship. You might not need it but it could help you during the divorce. Stay strong until a divorce lawyer tells you what to do.
For the life of me, I don't know how your gf (on an intellectual level) can confuse an active break in, where you don't know the intentions of the assailants, with a classically abusive father or bf who will pound you for talking back or cooking your eggs wrong. These guys could have been intending to rape or murder. In this country (US), we literally had a situation where a guy broke into a house and slaughtered 4 college students in their beds. He probably appeared to be a burglar interested in property (he dressed that way) to anyone who observed his activities inside and outside the house.
But on the other hand, your gf is also feeling instinctive feelings that she can't control. She needs therapy and if you want to salvage the relationship, you should be supportive. But if she is making you out to be the bad guy, I don't think this is a relationship worth saving — you both discovered something about each other.
I’m thinking at most I give him one pass for this and I leave without a conversation if it happens again – is that an over reaction?
Nope. That’s an under-reaction.
Not sure if it's a translation thing, but here in the USA, pretty, cutie, and beautiful all mean the same. A few people dislike 'cute' because it is often a reference to children, but they mean the same.
Are you saying he uses beautiful frequently, just never in relation to you?
Do you think he is dating you in spite of not liking your appearance?
Have you considered asking him? “Do you think I'm beautiful, or just a little cute? Why do you never call me beautiful?”
I was thinking more just for you.
Abortions can be unbelievably traumatic, my wife had one way back when we had only been dating a few months. She actually had an adverse reaction to the pain meds so I was running around like a lunatic doing whatever I could to make it better. The worst of it lasted around 8 or 9 hours and I wouldn't wish what she went through on anyone.. I'm sorry you're going through this.
It sounds like you resent your bf for: A: Being part of the reason you had to get an abortion in the first place and B: Not being helpful enough during the process
I was pretty useless when I was 23 so I can't beat anyone up for that, but from your post it sounds like you got knocked up by a lazy dude and now you're mad at him because you two are going through a big thing and he's still as lazy as he was a week ago….which doesn't make a lot of sense.
I think a therapist can help you sort out what you just went through as well as what you expect from this guy and a partner in general.