I only ever would accept a date for a potential romantic partner. I don't waste time otherwise. And a date is precious and meant to be taken seriously. Also I don't know if you seen but as a matter of fact the real story of this girl is that she cheated days after but then made another post saying it was hours after so she looked better. I seen people commenting that read her previous post. So yeah , we could smell Miles away something was wrong.
I can tell you from personal experience that drinking, doing coke, and getting involved in other peoples relationships is exactly how mine ended. Overall I’m glad that it did because I’m a better person now. I’m not out drinking every night, not having massive blow out arguments with my ex over dumb shit because we’re always drunk or hungover.
I’d suggest thinking hard about what you want from your own life and having a serious talk with your girlfriend about what you guys both want from life together and your relationship.
I donno I think it sounds like a friend and if you blow it outta proportion it could end it for you. Imo if they were in his life before before you he SHOULDNT choose you over them unless they’re doing something shitty or unhealthy. My husbands best friend has and always will be a lady. If I had let that scare me away I’d have missed out on an awesome dude AND a lady who is now my friend.
You don’t have to do it that way. A relative got into running races. A few of us would show up at the finish line ~20-30 minutes before they’d get there. The organizers had a neat thing where you could sign up to “track your runner”—you’d get a few texts when they passed checkpoints. Took the guesswork out of when to show up. We wouldn’t be standing out doing nothing for long stretches, but we could be there to cheer at the end. Win win.
I only ever would accept a date for a potential romantic partner. I don't waste time otherwise. And a date is precious and meant to be taken seriously. Also I don't know if you seen but as a matter of fact the real story of this girl is that she cheated days after but then made another post saying it was hours after so she looked better. I seen people commenting that read her previous post. So yeah , we could smell Miles away something was wrong.
Nah he ain't lying. He's being honest. Probably time to move on.
I can tell you from personal experience that drinking, doing coke, and getting involved in other peoples relationships is exactly how mine ended. Overall I’m glad that it did because I’m a better person now. I’m not out drinking every night, not having massive blow out arguments with my ex over dumb shit because we’re always drunk or hungover.
I’d suggest thinking hard about what you want from your own life and having a serious talk with your girlfriend about what you guys both want from life together and your relationship.
It's a waste of time on this sub. Any time cheating is mentioned people break out their pitchforks.
In future I would plan to live in Germany anyways, and incase of breakup I could still stay there.
I donno I think it sounds like a friend and if you blow it outta proportion it could end it for you. Imo if they were in his life before before you he SHOULDNT choose you over them unless they’re doing something shitty or unhealthy. My husbands best friend has and always will be a lady. If I had let that scare me away I’d have missed out on an awesome dude AND a lady who is now my friend.
You don’t have to do it that way. A relative got into running races. A few of us would show up at the finish line ~20-30 minutes before they’d get there. The organizers had a neat thing where you could sign up to “track your runner”—you’d get a few texts when they passed checkpoints. Took the guesswork out of when to show up. We wouldn’t be standing out doing nothing for long stretches, but we could be there to cheer at the end. Win win.