If someone knows your account name I just assume they may read your stuff, for any social media. That's normal imo? Like if she knew your account name through normal means why wouldn't she go see it, that's how social media works.
If it worries you I'd try not to hand out your account name in the future though.
I would straight up tell him you‘re not getting married until he opens up entirely about his finances. If this marriage is supposed to work you guys need to be honest with each other, which included disclosing finances and having a conversation about how to deal with them in the future.
If someone knows your account name I just assume they may read your stuff, for any social media. That's normal imo? Like if she knew your account name through normal means why wouldn't she go see it, that's how social media works.
If it worries you I'd try not to hand out your account name in the future though.
Threats of suicide to acheive a desired outcome from a partner is abuse.
Religious differences are a very big deal if you ever want kids. Add political differences and it’s probably a sign that you aren’t compatible. Sorry.
I would straight up tell him you‘re not getting married until he opens up entirely about his finances. If this marriage is supposed to work you guys need to be honest with each other, which included disclosing finances and having a conversation about how to deal with them in the future.