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Cheaters tend to be manipulative and narcissistic. They get off on power plays and hiding their current and future infidelities with gaslighting tactics.
What if he somehow found out about the arrangements on his own, like a booking error at the Hotel requiring them to call and leave a message that he hears? Or hearing a rumor from one of her coworkers he's acquainted with?
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Gaslighting and Shaming tactics. Like bread and butter for cheaters.
You've been dating for a month man, and you imply she is a virgin with the “non penetrative” comment. She probably sees you as a sleazeball who is rushing her.
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He’s not yours though. Reach out to a therapist. It will help.
Cheaters tend to be manipulative and narcissistic. They get off on power plays and hiding their current and future infidelities with gaslighting tactics.
What if he somehow found out about the arrangements on his own, like a booking error at the Hotel requiring them to call and leave a message that he hears? Or hearing a rumor from one of her coworkers he's acquainted with?
Now she can claim “But I told you myself?” and then use one of the Cheater's top favorite go-to strategies: Shaming Tactics.
“You're just insecure. If you were stronger and trusted me you'd be okay with this. Ugh! I TOLD you myself! All this insecurity is just making you look weak”
Gaslighting and Shaming tactics. Like bread and butter for cheaters.
You've been dating for a month man, and you imply she is a virgin with the “non penetrative” comment. She probably sees you as a sleazeball who is rushing her.
Are we talking young like 18 or young like 12?