You need to elaborate further on what you mean by your needs aren't being met. It's a vague statement, intentionally or not, that needs more context. What are your needs that he's not meeting? Equally, are you sure you're meeting his? I'm not trying to absolve him of responsibility but it's a vague statement and offers no context about the root cause of your problem.
Second, your guy friend is a prick, doesn't respect your relationship. Third, and this is something that is a personal bother of mine, but there are certain elements of relationships, be it with a partner, relative or friend that you just shouldn't talk to people about, for me. Some thing a stay private and personal. I think you violated a boundary he has, especially to someone he clearly does not like.
Solutions are to work out your problems between you. That's it.
I've tried moving on, i really did. But I'm not able to get her out of my mind. I know I've been a jerk to her, but I'd do better this time, given a chance. Other than that, i don't have a leg to stand on and tell that it'll be good for both us. But yeah, I'll do my best and do right by her. I'll not let her down this time.
Real estate. Always
A bank will give you a loan for a house. That same bank won’t give you a loan (for 10x the interest rate) to buy that bank’s OWN stock
You need to elaborate further on what you mean by your needs aren't being met. It's a vague statement, intentionally or not, that needs more context. What are your needs that he's not meeting? Equally, are you sure you're meeting his? I'm not trying to absolve him of responsibility but it's a vague statement and offers no context about the root cause of your problem.
Second, your guy friend is a prick, doesn't respect your relationship. Third, and this is something that is a personal bother of mine, but there are certain elements of relationships, be it with a partner, relative or friend that you just shouldn't talk to people about, for me. Some thing a stay private and personal. I think you violated a boundary he has, especially to someone he clearly does not like.
Solutions are to work out your problems between you. That's it.
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I've tried moving on, i really did. But I'm not able to get her out of my mind. I know I've been a jerk to her, but I'd do better this time, given a chance. Other than that, i don't have a leg to stand on and tell that it'll be good for both us. But yeah, I'll do my best and do right by her. I'll not let her down this time.
She could just talk and take this pain away
She owes you nothing. Leave her alone. It is over.