There’s nothing you can do to fix it. The only chance you have is to work on yourself; maybe he’ll see that an take you back. Good chance he won’t, but you should work on yourself regardless. Here’s my suggestions going forward:
1. Quit drinking. You have a problem with alcohol… getting blacked out is a problem whether it’s in a safe place with friends or not.
2. End things with your “best friend.” They’re a crappy friend. Imagine his gf didn’t catch you? You would’ve both cheated on your partners, and you would’ve never known. There’s also a chance you were drugged/raped, but we’ll never know the truth.
3. Get a STD test and a pregnancy test. If you did have sex, you don’t remember it and might have not used protection. This is a precaution.
Honestly, this kind of reaction to that question would have me ending the relationship.
If, after a year, my girlfriend was insecure to the point of distrust about a woman I am friends with, that would show me that the relationship did not have a healthy future.
The silent treatment shows me that she is more concerned about herself than the actual relationship or your feelings, and that she’s going to try to emotionally manipulate you when she thinks you’ve suffered enough.
Life is too short to wallow in the whims of emotionally immature manipulators.
Do whatever you like, there's no bro code here as you ditched Brian without ever getting his side of story.
There’s nothing you can do to fix it. The only chance you have is to work on yourself; maybe he’ll see that an take you back. Good chance he won’t, but you should work on yourself regardless. Here’s my suggestions going forward:
1. Quit drinking. You have a problem with alcohol… getting blacked out is a problem whether it’s in a safe place with friends or not.
2. End things with your “best friend.” They’re a crappy friend. Imagine his gf didn’t catch you? You would’ve both cheated on your partners, and you would’ve never known. There’s also a chance you were drugged/raped, but we’ll never know the truth.
3. Get a STD test and a pregnancy test. If you did have sex, you don’t remember it and might have not used protection. This is a precaution.
Good luck
Dick move.
Stop overthinking now and just move on. You're only hurting yourself.
You’re right, it depends on how my parents take the news. I hope that my parents would support me and my decision. There’s only one way to find out.
Honestly, this kind of reaction to that question would have me ending the relationship.
If, after a year, my girlfriend was insecure to the point of distrust about a woman I am friends with, that would show me that the relationship did not have a healthy future.
The silent treatment shows me that she is more concerned about herself than the actual relationship or your feelings, and that she’s going to try to emotionally manipulate you when she thinks you’ve suffered enough.
Life is too short to wallow in the whims of emotionally immature manipulators.
Yeah. It’s too late to go back