I work with a lot of Indian Australian men. I have no doubt he really does love you but the parents really do have a final say, and theres dowry’s involved and shit, it really is a choice between you and his family, and family is massive in than culture.
Has he shown you any indication that he’s not trustworthy? If he hasn’t you should trust him. Easier said than done, but it really does seem like you’re too worried here. I get the feeling though, been through the female friend thing myself. Maybe talk about your feelings with him without accusing, it really helps to talk things out, that way he can reassure you and calm you down.
She’s not wrong. When he knocks you up do the right thing and have an abortion or put the baby up for adoption. Neither of you should be responsible for children. Even if you manage to dodge that bullet go ahead and get yourself checked for sexually transmitted infections and disease. He’s obviously not the loyal type so there’s probably other people and you know he doesn’t care about being safe. I’ll tell you the same I will be telling my kid when she’s old enough. Have all the safe consensual sex you want with whoever you want as long as they are also being safe and consensual. This guy isn’t that.
Yeah I’m not quite sure if it’s about her doing that to feel like the victim. I think I’ve broken her trust and she feels the need to ask multiple times because that’s what was needed in the past.
You’ve stated multiple times he is in love with his wife, and had absolutely zero emotional connection with you. So get yourself into therapy, go low contact and take time to heal and move on and pursue a relationship with someone else.
You’ve stated multiple times he is in love with his wife, and had absolutely zero emotional connection with you. So get yourself into therapy, go low contact and take time to heal and move on and pursue a relationship with someone else.
Yeah, I have a theory that it's actually the “husband” using this subreddit to exercise his delusions.
You can be friends with someone male who isn't your boyfriend just an fyi.
I work with a lot of Indian Australian men. I have no doubt he really does love you but the parents really do have a final say, and theres dowry’s involved and shit, it really is a choice between you and his family, and family is massive in than culture.
My advice is don’t wait.
Omg what the fuck youre so right. He literally doesnt space out, he only spaces out at hot chicks lmao.
So he's controlling and advocates for animal abuse. Is trying to harm your cat really making you feel safe?
“But sir, you don't understand. I know she's a stripper off base but she loves me and I love her”
Yes, she's a great mom
Why? Seems like the trust is lost.
Plus, from your comment, her constantly working late without overtime is suspect as hell.
Might want to get an STD test.
Stop making him responsible for your actions. You are an adult. You are responsible for your actions.
I just said similar before seeing your comment. He better learn some biology.
He’s just another insecure dude that purposely dates girls 10 years younger than him so he can pull this bs and they won’t fight him.
Break up with him.
Has he shown you any indication that he’s not trustworthy? If he hasn’t you should trust him. Easier said than done, but it really does seem like you’re too worried here. I get the feeling though, been through the female friend thing myself. Maybe talk about your feelings with him without accusing, it really helps to talk things out, that way he can reassure you and calm you down.
She’s not wrong. When he knocks you up do the right thing and have an abortion or put the baby up for adoption. Neither of you should be responsible for children. Even if you manage to dodge that bullet go ahead and get yourself checked for sexually transmitted infections and disease. He’s obviously not the loyal type so there’s probably other people and you know he doesn’t care about being safe. I’ll tell you the same I will be telling my kid when she’s old enough. Have all the safe consensual sex you want with whoever you want as long as they are also being safe and consensual. This guy isn’t that.
Yeah I’m not quite sure if it’s about her doing that to feel like the victim. I think I’ve broken her trust and she feels the need to ask multiple times because that’s what was needed in the past.
Yes. Tell her. How will she know you dislike it if you don’t?
Nah, they belong to the streets.
You’ve stated multiple times he is in love with his wife, and had absolutely zero emotional connection with you. So get yourself into therapy, go low contact and take time to heal and move on and pursue a relationship with someone else.
You’ve stated multiple times he is in love with his wife, and had absolutely zero emotional connection with you. So get yourself into therapy, go low contact and take time to heal and move on and pursue a relationship with someone else.