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Date: November 6, 2022
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This sounds like gaslighting. You should look it up. If it is gaslighting, you should leave her. It's a form of intentional, controlling abuse. It's been getting worse? It'll get much worse.
21 yes i need therapy i am emotional fool but i can't afford it
Why are you still having babies with someone who thinks you’re cheating on him!
It sounds like he has a paranoia regarding children and paternity if you trust him and he’s not given you any reason to doubt his fidelity maybe it’s time to step back and take an honest assessment of his mental health. Paranoia is not rational he may absolutely trust you but still be terrified that one of his children may not biologically be his. I don’t want to diminish your feelings because they are valid and he should hear how hurtful this has been acknowledge it and do what he can to make it up to you but it may also help you to step back and evaluate whether or not he is able to look at this logically or is it just an irrational fear.
That’s what I want to do but I don’t know how to go back to what we’re used to be
Yes, or just a habit that helps her concentrate to study.
Thank you.
Am I missing something here? Your bf didn’t hurt your mom, you did.
None of his comments were rude, even the comment about her being “old” he wasn’t rude, that could have just meant she was older than he thought she would be, not that she looked old for her age.
I’m sorry but this one is on you, if you know your mom is sensitive about looking old why on earth would you repeat that comment to her?
He has some sorta thing about going to doctors and feeling like they don’t care about his pain. I’m tried to convince him. But maybe on the terms of no sex, he’ll go
Dude just DARVO'd you?? Like how many times can a no become a yes, it's disgusting that's coercion and yes that's rape. Yes your boyfriend raped you. You can take that information and do with it what you will. But from a legal standpoint it looks like he got you high on cold medicine and then tried to take advantage of you.
It seems to me that you boyfriend wants more attention and more quality time spent with you, which is totally fair to ask! You had plans to try and spend time with him, but he never knew about them so he felt neglected. To him, it could be perceived as “wants to but never does”, as in you want to have these plans together with him but when it comes to actually doing them, it doesn’t happen.
Maybe try treating this as a do-over. What did you learn from your previous relationship with them? Does he enjoy quality time, words of affirmation or reassurance, does he have anxiety/depression, what do THEY enjoy to do with you, etc. Have you explained to him that you come from an uncomfortable family situation and have low contact with them, hence never talking about them? Maybe he perceives you as hiding information from him and might want you to open up more. There’s a lot of info missing from this post, but just some thoughts for introspection! Just try thinking from his perspective based on what you know about his own family situation, hobbies, inner thoughts, etc.
Also, disclaimer: depending on the reason y’all broke up initially, it could be feelings of insecurity or some other issues from the relationship that were never really hashed out.
Hope this helps! Sorry if it’s all over the place :, )
It’s okay.
You’ve taken on the mental load of two people for almost a decade and you’re understandably burnt out.
You don’t sound like you’re his partner, you sound like his full time carer (or parent). He’s an adult that’s incapable of adulting and it’s time he stood in his own two feet.
I understand where your date is coming from. Your guyfriend sounds like the embodiment of the “guy you should not worry about”. There is a case to be made that a major cut of cheating is based in such constellations.
It is very difficult to say how to proceed from here. I personally would never commit to someone who has a guyfriend that in reality is just a bonus boyfriend.
If you want to keep dating then you need hot boundaries with this guyfriend. And this boundaries will need to consider the needs of your boyfriend (what does he see as cheating or overstepping etc.)
I mean, if he was black out drunk, he's technically not able to consent. If the other girl was sober, then one could argue that it was r@pe.
You are absolutely RIDICULOUS. Get over yourself. You should feel sick to your stomach because you betrayed HER. I can't believe I wasted my time by reading this AND typing this. Reflect. For the sake of your relationship. And get the fuck over it.
Thank you. I’ve considered it in the past, almost felt like it wasn’t okay to go if he wasn’t using anymore. Probably a needlessly limiting thought.
He should have wrapped his junk. He didn’t, now he’s got problems. But his problems are financial and emotional. Hers are economic devastation (if she continues the pregnancy) and physical danger with possible permanent damage to her body. Plus the emotional stuff.
Both idiots, use protection in future.
Wow, you've stumbled across a self-realisation and instead of addressing it and working on your anger issues you've instead gone whelp ?♀️
35 year old man tells wife he couldn't possibly be attracted to a 25 year old woman as be sees her as a “kid”
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To be blunt…. Leave her the hell alone. You were unbelievably selfish and bullied her into something she very obviously didn’t want to do. Then to massively double down you stomped into her space and blew up on her trying to make it her fault. Leave her alone and get some help before getting into another relationship. Date people your with your interests instead of people you think you can bend to your will.
But she is very elegant. Cops aren't elegant.
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I, too, have seen this happen SO MANY times.
Genuine question: any idea why guys (or, maybe just people in general, and my experience is just skewed) do this?
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Any advice at all, or if there’s anything I could do without making the behavior worse or causing damage
If he has allergies you would have noticed way earlier. Dude was snuffing nose candy and you know it.
Leave cracka cola and move on.
Yes, he is a VERY rational thinker. Which I believe tends to cloud his judgement.
I know his parents wouldnt mind me moving in with them. His mom has said it before