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Have you tried some position augmentations? A pillow or two under your bum for missionary. He's in more of a kneeling position. Easier on the knees and may be more comfortable for you both. He can get deeper too (which may or may not be desirable for you).
As someone who missed the initial post, this is fantastic! I used to start each morning with Coffee and Gatorade, and it took my best friend telling me that my breath was rancid for me to realize it. Sometimes, people just don’t notice because they’re so used to it.
If it's the price tag involved with traveling, you can find some really cool things that aren't expensive in most places. You just have to actively avoid the major tourist places. And even the major tourist places have good deals, like go during the off season.
And just because she wants to travel doesn't mean you have to travel together. One of the great things about long term, healthy relationships involves being able to do things on your own and then come back together to talk about them.
Honestly, discuss this with your wife. Marriage is about compromise and each relationship ship is different. Comparing your current wife to your ex shows completely different relationships, but you're using your ex as an excuse to run away. If not with your wife, find a therapist or counselor (since you don't like doctors), because you seem to be looking for a reason to end this relationship.
Unless there are much bigger things going on that you're not divulging, then her wanting to travel and retire when Health Insurance kicks in vs you preferring to stay in the states and not do the snowbird thing are not insurmountable obstacles. They're simply “a conversation and compromise” away from potentially a retirement of bliss.
Now if you ARE just looking for excuses to get out of the marriage because you want to be a grumpy, lonely old man waving your cane and rifle at kids trespassing on your lawn, then good luck to you. One man's horror is another's bliss and all that.
I guess because it’s something I wouldn’t waste my time doing, I found it weird. And yes I get you .. brands changing recipes can really mess you up. I just saw it as such a waste of time. There aren’t enough hours in the day. Maybe as I was so busy cooking and cleaning and catching up with work.. it annoyed me that he was so… FREE.
I basically came here to say exactly what this comment said. So I won’t repeat their excellent advice.
What I will say is that as someone who is also a parent with a young child (who just started kindergarten and it’s a BIG change that the whole family is struggling with) I understand how easy it is to accidentally make someone else’s crappy feelings about yourself. Like, I can tell right now my husband is flat and exhausted because he’s been taking our son in the mornings before doing long days at the hospital as a medical student. I’m also exhausted because I’m doing pick ups, working full time and being newly pregnant. We’re both working really hot, and we both feel pretty shit. And when I see how tired and flat he is, I often feel really guilty because he’s doing so much, but also angry because I know how much I’M doing and part of me is like…. I’m trying so hard and he’s still feeling burnt out so what’s the point of me making an effort?
But of course, it’s not about me. Just like my exhaustion is not about him, or rather about him somehow having it easy or letting me down. One of the hardest things we can learn how to do is let our partners feel like crap without trying to fix it, because sometimes there’s nothing to fix. Which is not to say that counselling wouldn’t help you – I think it really would – I guess what I’m saying is that your wife expressing negativity doesn’t necessarily make that something you need to feel responsible for. You don’t have to pick up what she’s putting down, because realistically, she’s not putting it down for you – she’s putting it down for herself, so she doesn’t have to carry it for a little bit. Personally I think there are much more effective ways for her to handle the strain she’s under than what she’s currently doing, but I also think a good old fashioned whinge can be extremely important and cathartic. It might just need to be tempered with a more balanced and optimistic approach overall. And I think you could also benefit from some support around how you can let your wife feel her feelings (even the unpleasant ones) without it being something you feel responsible for changing.
Please do! She’s been patient with you. And i don’t think it’s good to chat for too long. Might build unrealistic images of the other person in our heads.
Run, run far and fast my dude!