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They don’t have food and water?? They’re out in the cold and heat?? And you’re stressing because you can’t feed and water…. I can’t. This is too much… you should be ,..,, I read your profile. They are live beings!! At least feed and water them!
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I think therapy FOR YOU is a great idea! AFTER you have kicked her to the curb.
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No way.
They don’t have food and water?? They’re out in the cold and heat?? And you’re stressing because you can’t feed and water…. I can’t. This is too much… you should be ,..,, I read your profile. They are live beings!! At least feed and water them!
This is the only right answer. Divorce lawyer. And also, I wouldn't keep the baby. I know this sounds horrible, but having baby with this person means being stuck forever with this person. I don't know any relationship/marriage that started with 'my partner doesn't let me go out' and ended well. It usually ends with constant mental and sometimes physical abuse. This is probably the biggest red flag ever. OP, get out please!!
Do you think he will never be caught? Do you want to stay in a relationship with a man who is fired for masturbating at work? Who is taking that kind of risk on a weekly or biweekly basis? Pin your future on a man who is addicted to masturbating to the cost of all else?
Honest question, what do you think couples/marriage therapy is going to accomplish here? It's not going to un-fuck your wife. She broke your trust and doesn't respect you, by giving her another chance you're just showing her you're ok with being used as a doormat.
I think therapy FOR YOU is a great idea! AFTER you have kicked her to the curb.