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Tana, 25 y.o.
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Date: November 5, 2022
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Boy, I'm not ragging on your but your generation has taken it way too far with this “objectifying” and “claiming” extremism. When you're in a monogamous relationship, yes you are claiming them and that is perfectly OK. If you're not monogamous then yes you have the relationship type and mindset that you both are open to engaging in sexual acts with others. Traditional monogamous, no you don't have that luxury so yes you can say their private parts are for you only. Again it isn't a direct shot at you, but your generation has really made it that you can't do or say anything when there is no harm in saying that someone is yours, that someone dick/vagina is for you only.
With that being said, unless your relationship is otherwise, you can explain to your partner that sending nudes to others when your partner doesn't like that is a form of emotional cheating. It is true, no physical acts have been done but in a healthy relationship when both partners express their boundaries, it is assumed and expected that, if you truly care for your partner, you do not cross them. You can discuss matters to see if a compromise can be done, but if it is a very hot no from someone that they do not like, well you either respect their wishes (in this case keep nudes strictly for your partner) or you can say it isn't for you and you find someone who wants that type of relationship.
Today, there's various types of relationships and yes some are completely fine with their partner sending out nudes but again, if someone specifically says they are not looking for that type, then they'll either cross that boundary which will show a lack of respect for them or they will respect it and not do it ?♂️
Those were her words not mine. I didn’t press anything and honestly the last thing I want to do is change who she is. She’s a really nice girl, and if we aren’t compatible that’s it. But I don’t see myself not being with her because of this, I just wanted to talk and get her perspective.
It’s not that deep
Thank you so much, I guess I’ve just always been so scared to say no or hurt someone’s feelings. Which is maybe why I’m so scared? I was in some bad situations where they made me feel bad if I didn’t want to do something and maybe I’m scared of that again. Thank you I needed to hear that
Dude that's a pretty big flag I can't quite make out the color……..??……?? yikes its a RED flag
I should add this. Prior to the appointment described above with the mortgage broker, she said that if we were planning to get married in 2024, we didn't need to worry about a contract and everything would be fine.
In the second conversation, as described above, she said the opposite and that we had to do it. Hence the frustration that we suddenly had to do it while she told us at first we didn't have to worry about it.
One alternative is getting legally married, not holding a ceremony of any kind, and then doing the wedding that you want in 2024.
We weren't planning a traditional wedding anyway. We just want to get married legally, invite some family and friends to celebrate with us and that's that. No church or fancy wedding dresses or anything.
We never liked such a big party because we are both introverts and don't like to be the center of attention.