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Date: November 5, 2022
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Super big squirt & anal fingering at the same time ♥♥♥ [299 tokens remaining]
If you’re embarrassed to get a book in public, order it online. Lots of good recommendations on tiktok and Instagram for those type of books. I’m sure there are subreddits here too with good recs.
As for the issue in your relationship… that’s gonna take some more work. Are you able to communicate the things you’re feeling to your husband? Do you think he’d listen if you were honest about how his actions a impacting your libido? It’s not your responsibility to change how you feel, but it is your responsibility to communicate those feelings to him… because if you don’t then he probably will never know and thus will never do anything about it. If you want change, you have to do something different… otherwise you’ll get the same results. Best to have these type of convos away from the bedroom and when things are calm between you. If your husband values the way you feel, he’s not going to want you to preform duty sex for him, he’ll want it to be mutually intimate and enjoyable.
So your wife is watching her mother slowly die a painful and heartbreaking death and you…..can’t go out with your mates??? Fuck off
Try r/pornfree
It took me 2 years to break free from this addiction. And I wanted to be free! Your BF has to want to get free himself or nothing will ever work. Ever.
I had a friend with whom I could be honest. I have a router with porn blockers on it; but still I found my way around it.
It takes 3 months (!) without porn to get to the HARDEST part!!! At that point it very slowly starts getting easier.
Suggestions: Read the post from u/anamesnotimportant. Check out the “about” section of r/pornfree. Check out sanon.org. Set up your router so you are the admin he is like a child. Pray. Or follow u/tossout7878’s advice.
Good luck!!!
Communicate. Use your words.
If it bothers you, just say, “Sending nudes to other people while we're in an intimate relationship upsets me.” I'm assuming your relationship is monogamous and exclusive. And if you haven't discussed that, you need to.
The only person's behavior you can control is your own (one of the great truths of life). If they continue to send nudes after you've told them it bothers you, that behavior speaks to the respect they have for your feelings.
So then you'll know and you'll have a decision to make. Either put up with it and get over it, or be done.
This guy is probably missing how much time you spent together and just wants that to continue, but the other things he's doing is not sitting well with me. He cancels plans you're looking forward to, he tells you choosing to do what you want is hurtful to him, you probably didn't notice how much when you were spending all your time together, but from here, this looks like controlling behavior that is only coming to the surface now that you're apart so much. You don't mention him coming to where you are, so he's taking you out of your comfort zone and then telling you you're reacting poorly (not as he wants you to) when things don't go as you expect. Why can't he come visit you? And besides all that, I think you already feel this isn't what you want from him, so don't just submit to him because it's less hassle. What you want us important, your hobbies, your activities, your commitments, you have a life going on where you are and he's trying to disturb it. Set your boundaries and create new habits for your relationship that are equal to both sides, or maybe stop here, take a break, or just move on. Life is changing a lot right now, not everything can stay as it was.
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If I could, I'd offer some very sharp words to your STBXBF about ANY form of DV, including “playful” wrestling. His response was NOT playful, it was dangerous and threatening. As such, it was far more concerning than your taunt, and I'm NOT saying “You asked for it.”
But I AM saying that, just like his wrestling maneuver, your taunt did not come across as playfulness. He processed it as mocking his manhood – the sharpest verbal knife in a woman's kitchen drawer. Please understand – while i can explain what he did, I can NOT excuse it.
I'm usually hesitant to blow a minor misunderstanding into a breakup, but I can't shake the feeling that this is how this must end. A muscular headlock that produces a 180 full body turn belongs on TV wrestling, and even those trained professional athletes are taking great risks to earn their pay. That he would do this in fun makes me very afraid of what he might do in anger. Pull the plug. Sorry.
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This person is a better person then me. I absolutely would go scorched earth.
Take D-Mannose (available on Amazon or any health food store) you won’t get another UTI. And sweetie, new boyfriend, please (saying this with love, as a mom)
No you’re not his mother but you’re supposed to be his partner. Even if he wants alone time he should let you know such and at least let you know he’s ok. The way he’s done it and the way he’s reacting are very suspicious to me. As for what you should do, you need to decide if this is behavior you wish (or you’ll tolerate) in a partner. If not, talk to him about it. If he still downplays it or gets defensive or angry then realize there’s an incompatibility there
I’m exhausted just reading it. My husband used to be somewhat like this but not nearly to this extent. More just if we’re home together we need to do things together. If I wanted to read or something he would subtly make me feel guilty for not spending time with him instead. And vacations meant we were at the hip the whole time (he still is this way occasionally but not nearly as bad).
It took time and communication but he now understands that sometimes I just need to be alone. It’s not personal, it’s just how I’m wired.
He has a hobby that takes him outside multiple times a week and that’s when I do my own hobbies in the house. We even have what we call ‘hotel time’ and that’s where I spend the day/weekend in our room writing or watching movies alone.
I don’t know if this is possible for you since my husband never outright accused me of not wanting to be around him, but you should at least attempt to communicate the problem to her. At that point, depending on her response, you can decide whether the relationship is salvageable or if you’re done.
Go to the police and get a restraining order. Then change your number asap. And if you can, go stay with friends or relatives for a few weeks
Yeah I've lost all muscle mass and the junk food has got me oo the unhealthier side..
She doesn’t tend to socialize herself with people she can learn from, it always partying or smoking/drinking
I think about the worst case scenario of each options when making a difficult decision. Think about the worst case scenario of both breaking up the engagement and getting married.
The worst case scenario of breaking up the engagement is – emotional turmoil and heartbreak, maybe losing some money in wedding preparations, having to tell friends and family you guys have called it off, and so on.
The worst case scenario of getting married is after several years you may realize he loves his ex or some other 3rd woman (he’s not in love with you, sorry), he may leave you or vice versa, divorce, legal stuff like insurance and retirement and all that, if you have kids at that time then coparenting, dividing assets, having to tell friends and family you two are ending the marriage, and so on.
No one here knows you or the fiancé so we can’t tell you what to do in your own life. I would suggest take some time away from him to clear your head and think rationally. Then decide if he’s worth all the risk or whether you can emotionally bear the breakup. Good luck to you
9.9/10 times breaking up and getting back together doesn’t work out in general. So the idea that you guys broke up, you fucked someone else and you think rekindling the relationship would’ve went well is kinda dumb on your part. Sure you had all the right to do so, but getting back together without considering how he’d feels lowkey selfish.
Next time you break up with someone and fuck someone else just assume you’ll never be able to get back together with the OG person..it’s kinda common sense tbh.
Well, its good to have a heart to heart talk with him, sit down and ask him to open up whether he had found some one else while on a break with you. Tell him no judgement juat want to make sure he is making the right choice.
Is your boyfriend a German choreographer? No, but you deserve better. Get away. He's abusive.
No longer loving your spouse is plenty of reason to divorce them. You will go through a chaotic period of time but when that's all over, you will feel more serene. Good luck to you.
This is a HER problem.
She needs to deal with her retrospective jealousy elsewhere.
Especially after just four months? Nah.
Cut the loss.
Never ever loan money you are not a bank. You can gift friends and relatives but loans are just NO! Take this as a very hot lesson learned. Get a second job if you really need that money because you are never getting it back.
True lmao
How about we agree that OP is the only one who knows what he wants, and what he’s willing to try, and stop telling him how he has to feel, or should feel, and double down on the idea that couples therapy is the only real hope for a continued healthy relationship, given the context? Let’s focus on outcomes and options. It’s OPs choice. But I like that you’re rigorous and seem reasonable. Take care!
You did exactly what you wanted when you wanted.
So, you made money but now you have an unhappy marriage.
Some people just don't get it just because it ended up being financially successful doesn't mean she should be happy.
You seem like such a thoughtful person, that ring sounds beautiful, you deserve so much better! I’m
Where did I say she asks for space?
Still… phone support from your partner when you have a shock is better than nothing. You don’t online there, so phone support is the best you can do. I’m sure she knows that.
Hopefully the worst won’t happen anyway. Not every scummy creep puts the photos on the internet. And even if he did, they might not go viral and be seen by her friends or family or work colleagues.
But she deserves to be warned about the possibility, and comforted by her bf over the phone from far away.
We have a group chat going and it’s the exact same setup as his family. My brother didn’t add his wife (then gf) to the group chat but I had added my husband (then boyfriend). My brother said it was because he didn’t want to scare her off with all of the crazy family drama that sometimes pops up in there
To a specific coworkers house that's been a concern? Odds are slim.
Good people don't salt the wounds of their loved ones. You need a new guy.
Definitely don't blow up his phone, when he's overseas for 15 days, especially since it's for enjoying his time with his friend. Constant calling text messages needing needing him, will be annoying absolutely. I don't know what the minimum amount of communication you can have with him per day, but figure that out and adhere by it. If you're worried about him maybe get that one -I'm alive and I'm okay- text from him, and maybe 1-2 calls of what he's been doing. But keep it minimal.
On your side, OP, is there anything that you wouldn't do around your boyfriend? Favorite TV show, that he doesn't like, binge watch that. Favorite takeout, that you usually don't get because he doesn't love it and you try to keep it equal, –get enough to last several days just for yourself. That kind of stuff.
What part of your routine are you trying to figure out?
A therapist can help you do this… a professional. I don’t blame you OP.
I'm just wondering if she has three children and all of them earn good money, how much does it cost them each monthly to pay for their mothers livestyle? And what procentage of their income would be left?
Because depending on the answer this situation could be completely different.
If they each earn like 10k a month and pay their mom 1k that very different from each earning like 3k and paying their mom 1k.
And what OP should also ask her husband is if he would be ok if she decided that they are going to send double what they sent his mother to her parents.
This limbo is understable! I have been thru this before. If your first instinct when you found out was to arrange an abortion, I would stick to that gut feeling. You got this babe! If you have any questions, feel free to msg me ♥️
Ah f*ck… I thought I recognized him from another one and wanted to check out his profile … guess I should not have waited till later this evening 🙁
NO NO NO NO NO
Being a step father for ten years DOES NOT automatically mean he is the FATHER in their lives. That duty might belong to, oh i don’t know, THEIR ACTUAL FATHERS, gasp! There is absolutely NOTHING here to indicate their father isn’t involved, which might be the reason they don’t look at him as a father.
I think he’s suffering from a clear discussion of his role when they got married. He expected something to happen that was never going to happen. Poor guy.
Actually no you don’t. Very few women actually get any pain medication. They just tell you to take ibuprofen. If you’d actually done any fucking research and spoken to women who have had the 80% of abortion you’d know this
Mail him a positive pregnancy test with a note that says: we have to talk