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Date: November 5, 2022
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This. OP has no idea what he's about to do his gf and what potential impact this will re her relationship to her own body/disability if he goes through with this.
Why not hit up the disability subreddit for advice before you do this? Have you tried other things that are solutions that include her, or did you just not see sex working the way you're used to understanding sex working and then relegate one another to a sexless situation instead of adapting?
A monogamous person resigning themselves to their partner fucking other people because they feel like their disability is a burden on the relationship is a problem and, if it were me, I'd be wondering what part I had to play in my partner feeling this way.
Stop with this fake ass shit. Jesus.
Not sure whybthis has been downvoted
I once lost a best friend to them changing thanks to a new relationship as well (though my friend and I weren't related). Unfortunately, that's how it sometimes goes.
At your age, doing dumb things is pretty normal. After all, it's the age where parents finally don't have a real say anymore and the adult world with all its possibilities opens up. However, that doesn't mean that young adults are magically able to navigate it well. It takes some learning – from moving out and realizing what it takes to run your own household (chores, bills, money budgeting) to interpersonal relationships (getting jobs and getting along with coworkers, longer-lasting romantic relationships outside of school). And your brains mature until you're 25, so between learning to navigate pitfalls of adulthood and actually maturing as a person, it's no wonder that dumb things are being chosen.
In fact, doing dumb things and feeling the consequences of that action is one thing that leads to real maturity, as now, the parents aren't responsible anymore, but the young adult is. However, I understand your worry – normally, such dumb decisions lead to maybe a bill not being paid on time or having to eat instant noodles for a week because of bad budgeting. Drugs are a whole other thing – and I lost a sister to drugs, so I know very well how horrid this can end – and I absolutely get why you want to keep your sister away from that world.
But you can't help someone who doesn't want help. And, quite frankly, the kindest thing might be to not help her. If her boyfriend treats her badly and she always has a place to vent and offload her bad emotions by chatting to others about the issues, she is more likely to stay in the relationship. The same goes for drug addiction – addicts usually only seek help when they've hit rock bottom. As long as family coddles them and gives them money for rent and food because they spent theirs on drugs, they are far less likely to seek help, as the consequences of their actions aren't bad enough.
So instead of taking care of your sister, take care of yourself and do what's best for you. Establish boundaries with your sister if needed (Boundaries concern you, not her – so no “I don't want you to talk to him”, but instead “I don't want to hear anything about him and will leave if the topic comes up”, for example). And then hope that she will see the light sooner or later.
Yeah, it’s not going to work out. You should find someone who has a low sex drive. I was your boyfriend in that situation and I didn’t last very long. Wait until he starts to feel frustrated and unloved.