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Date: November 4, 2022
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Whatever his reasons for behaving like that there is no excuse and not acceptable. People make mistakes but to treat you like that is beyond a mistake.
It's really simple, she's saying his name because she is thinking of him. I don't know if I could continue a relationship with her if I was you.
I think that's only a question she can answer.
Before I came out, I'd day dream “How could girls ever break up with each other? They have none of the issues men have!” I think WLW breakups (or at least my WLW breakups lol) are different than heterosexual breakups because it's not necessarily that anyone did anything wrong, it's just that it's not feeling quite right. There's less of a smoking gun — it's not that one of you does more house work, or orgasms more, or refuses to do laundry. These things can definitely happen, but in my experience it's often much more “I don't know if this is the best I could feel,” or “I'm so happy, but should I expect more?” or “Am I the right person for this right now?” For me, as a bisexual woman, that means almost all my WLW breakups have been bizarre “We're kinda still dating, but not, but we'll get back together…maybe, please don't ask, we're unsure” situations like what you're having right now. With hetero breakups, you're so often fed up and tired with the guy, you never want to see each other again. With WLW…it can be a totally different ball game.
Not sure if that's helpful, but just know that your breakup confusion is very much a universal queer female experience. That's why I think a clearly communicated boundary is your best bet, whatever direction you want to take it.
Bringing your SO to meet a childhood bestie that you hooked up with occasionally in the past that’s moving away isn’t weird unless you make it weird.
I’d break up with him. He’s disrespectful. I’d understand hanging out with this person in a group setting, but a lunch to “catch up”? Nah. He can do that to the next girl
I’d want to know.
I suggest reaching out to him anonymously, as you don’t want this impacting your work environment.
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Apart from STD’s and all. If you weren’t with him, would you want to be on birth control? If you’d rather not, don’t just do it for some guy. Sorry to break it to you but at this stage he really just is “some guy”.
If you were already considering going on birth control, do it on your own terms and speed. If you’re not sure yet, don’t rush into it, it really is a big decision as it has several things that affect your body.
Bottom line: only go on birth control if you want to do that for you. Many guys take the side effects and risks way too lightly and don’t think about what it’s like for you. He is only thinking with his dick.
I think until the divorce papers are signed, you should be letting him go. As you can see it's too messy and hurts otherwise.
Sorry you are going through a breakup.
It really doesn’t sound like you’re a priority. It also doesn’t sound like it’s an ideal scenario. I’ve been in quite a few scenarios where I felt the woman isn’t really catching my vibe, so it was best to assume it wasn’t going anywhere.
Going 3 days without communication isn’t necessarily a red flag. You did however mention that it’s the best it’s ever been since your 3 day moody bender.
Give it a shot. If it doesn’t work out, I wouldn’t beat myself up over it. It’s difficult to gauge how you two feel about each other through this small post.
It wasn’t given to her, her mother’s LIFE paid for it.
Your dad doesn't have any issue with the fact that you're gay or the fact that you're a bottom. Any parent would act awkward and uncomfortable if their child's partner stated such an explicitly sexual thing about their child no matter the orientation.
Did you expect your dad to be like “haha thats so funny tell me more about how you rail my son!”
Thank you!
If you don’t understand what you did wrong, don’t apologize, simply say you don’t understand what you did wrong but you want to understand and ask to talk about it more. An apology means you’ll do better next time, but you can’t do better next time if you don’t understand what you did wrong.
What in the absolute fuck made you go from “hm, she is being closer to me lately” to “I'll ask her if I can fuck her no strings attached”?
You cant really save this. From her end she though she had a friend. She were a bit close and relaxing around you, and now it turns out that the friend jumped at the chance to suggest sleeping with her because of it. I've seen it refered to as fuckzoned a few times. How could she ever let her gard down around you again without worrying that you'll take it the wrong way? Even if she was having a bit of a crush on you, you just jumped entirely past her as a person and straight to “you should get naked in front of me” for some reason.
If you have a first cousin on your dad’s side that you trust, y’all should take the DNA test together. That should at least give you a yes/no on that front.
Do what the people should of done in the movie poltergeist…
GET OUT (of the relationship)
Are you going to honestly stay in a relationship with someone for the rest of your life and allow this to be norm?
You aren't even married and there are red flags all over the place.
Why are you wasting your time?
It's clear that she isn't going to change. What makes you think marriage will be a catalyst for her to change?
Time to bounce my friend. You can do better.
All the best.
Are you sure he isn't trying to break up with you? Why does he think there isn't any point in moving next year?
Didn't we all learn that oral sex is still sex when Bill Clinton got caught with Monica Lewinsky?