There’s a lot of denial in the comments here. It’s reasonable to gauge how much your partner is into you by evaluating how they treat you compared to past lovers. If this was a post about a guy who took all his previous girls traveling but refused to go on vacation with his current girlfriend despite having plenty if money and time to do so, reddit would have a fit on her behalf. Men care about their position in their woman’s sexual hierarchy. If you’ve done things in the past, and told your bf about it, butt refuse to do the same with them, expect problems. That’s damaging to the man’s psyche.
Okay, repeating your post is not context. Context means please explain the scenario in more detail
Be done with this relationship. He either wants her as a side piece or as a main if that's an option. He's not loyal.
This just seems wierd, most people would save their porn as favorites on said porn pages and not in notes.
That said porn is fantasy and not reality. Don't get in your own head over this.
It’s not a foreign country to OP’s wife though: she’s from Korea and moved to the US to marry him.
There’s a lot of denial in the comments here. It’s reasonable to gauge how much your partner is into you by evaluating how they treat you compared to past lovers. If this was a post about a guy who took all his previous girls traveling but refused to go on vacation with his current girlfriend despite having plenty if money and time to do so, reddit would have a fit on her behalf. Men care about their position in their woman’s sexual hierarchy. If you’ve done things in the past, and told your bf about it, butt refuse to do the same with them, expect problems. That’s damaging to the man’s psyche.
Honestly great advice. Thank you. I will try this because the arguing with her and accusing her just isn’t doing it.