He doesn't want to go or he doesn't want you to go?
Personally, I wouldn't want to date someone who went to bars and clubs but I just wouldn't date someone who does, why all these dudes putting themselves and their partners in shitty positions
“he views food as an expression of love and that he would like me to make our dinners”
BWAHAHAAHHAHAHAAAAA. Wow. That’s a new excuse for the lazy partner bingo card.
He’s never going to make dinner. He’s too put upon to slap his own sandwich together. I say go on strike. The reaction to this and if he will step up or just keep whining manipulative nonsense will tell you whether to call this relationship. Because if he digs in, you’ll be the food slave forever.
I understand what you mean but honestly it’s not about sex it’s about trust. If you truly trust someone you will show them all that you are. I almost always comfort her in terms of arguments and such just when I want to put my foot down I don’t, to show her I’m serious about something.
It sounds like you should be working with your doctor and a therapist. Someone who discourages you from getting medical/mental health help is not a good person.
They said, it would be annoying to me to have someone fishing for compliments all the time. If you need a lot of external validation, that’s something to talk to a therapist about.
A paternity test? Do you think she cheated? Because how she behaves?
He doesn't want to go or he doesn't want you to go?
Personally, I wouldn't want to date someone who went to bars and clubs but I just wouldn't date someone who does, why all these dudes putting themselves and their partners in shitty positions
Too far gone. Get an attorney and end it.
“he views food as an expression of love and that he would like me to make our dinners”
BWAHAHAAHHAHAHAAAAA. Wow. That’s a new excuse for the lazy partner bingo card.
He’s never going to make dinner. He’s too put upon to slap his own sandwich together. I say go on strike. The reaction to this and if he will step up or just keep whining manipulative nonsense will tell you whether to call this relationship. Because if he digs in, you’ll be the food slave forever.
Do not get back with him later. Do not forgive a liar. Hugs.
That is not a thing.
Yes you should immediately speak to your girlfriend as to how the whole situation has played out and deeply hurt you.
She is not a mind reader.
If you don’t speak up than how is she going to know how you truely feel.
It is not that hot!
Yah, let her go.
She wants her coworker, and even if she doesn't, she's being sneaky.
I understand what you mean but honestly it’s not about sex it’s about trust. If you truly trust someone you will show them all that you are. I almost always comfort her in terms of arguments and such just when I want to put my foot down I don’t, to show her I’m serious about something.
Postpone the wedding indefinitely and cancel the engagement.
Honestly, just end things so you aren't the fall back guy.
Don't take her back when she hysterically comes crawling back in a few weeks.
It's immaturity on her part, but it's obvious she isn't ready to get married or doesn't want to marry you. Why doesn't matter.
It sounds like you should be working with your doctor and a therapist. Someone who discourages you from getting medical/mental health help is not a good person.
They said, it would be annoying to me to have someone fishing for compliments all the time. If you need a lot of external validation, that’s something to talk to a therapist about.