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Date: November 3, 2022
Shut upppp
Your partner seems like someone decent
You didn’t expect them but it doesn’t change that this was designed to fail.
How long do you think you can last like this?
If you’re a good person and have respect for people you absolutely will end up with a wonderful partner.
Do you WANT to get back with her? Also, what does the custody arrangement say? I would stick to that and listen to your lawyer.
You give your ex money so that she can on-line comfortably in Thailand and provide for your son. You also set aside money for his collegefund. She wants to get back together with you after you denied to increase the amount of money. Huge red flag for me If you decide to get back together, get a pre-nup, keep finances separate and cover your butt.
How much time do you spend on foreplay on her?
There’s two possibilities here, neither of which is that big of a deal: either it was a weird and not-that-funny joke, or he doesn’t like being called “baby” and couldn’t think of a good way to tell you that.
If it was a joke, then the only thing to worry about is that maybe you don’t share a sense of humor.
If this is his way of trying to tell you something honest about pet names, then it’s just a matter of respecting his feelings on this and finding other terms of endearment.
I would just ask him directly. None of us internet strangers can tell you what he’s thinking.
This guy needs a therapist and possibly on some mental health medication. Something is not right here. It might be good to do couples therapy too
Ah, the pedo stache… When he’ll have enough of his family, friends and random people telling him how much he looks like a creep, he’ll get rid of it.
Sleep with ear plugs. It's their home and they can do what they like within reason, the reason in this case being they are doing it in their own room. If you don't like it, you are an adult and can move out. Saying it isn't an option is bs, plenty If not most kids your age don't on-line at home.
You got married a year ago. It was over the moment he asked. Grow a spine.
I often ask my husband to scram when I want to have a girl’s night. Is it her female friends she wants to have over?
Don’t sunk cost fallacy this. You can fully appreciate what she has done for you and your life WITHOUT marrying her. You should be married to someone who understands your needs and sees clearly how they are hurting you.
It makes ZERO sense to me why she is being so callous about your emotional needs for intimacy and then is militant with you about other people even expressing interest in you.
It really seems like she’s keeping you as a pet almost. That may be harsh to say, and I’m not saying she consciously thinks of you as a pet, but she doesn’t want to engage with you physically beyond vanilla sex or provide you with basic physical affection while she is happy to do so with other partners? If it takes her decades this relationship is not going to fulfill you until you are too old to enjoy it.
There are many good souls out there who will commit to you and care about your needs, whether that future person is poly or monogamous. This woman sounds like she has weird psychological hangups about marriage. Like the one you marry or marriage needs to be conservative and chaste and not wild and adventurous. Like she is keeping this one thing “pure” and the other things are her adventures.
I cannot emphasize enough that this isn’t about her being poly. This is about her putting HER emotional needs above yours CONSTANTLY.
Helping you through financial hardships does not entitle her to step on your feelings and needs in other areas.
I promise you, you can absolutely find a partner who is MUCH BETTER. I really want you to believe that buddy because like… a person who respects your needs? The bar is on the floor and she is underneath it.
I mean she slept with her boss. And she’s a horrible liar. Not sure what you want to do with that information?
Yes, I think OP needs to state where everyone is from. If they are religious, etc. If they are pursuing a male dominated field, as well.
If you're somewhere or she's from somewhere where premarital sex is an issue, this may be a significant screw up. If she's religious, you may no longer be good partner for her. She may not be comfortable with premarital sex because it's not an accepted practice for her. She's allowed to have those lines even if she lives in the US.
Finally, as a woman with a master's in a male dominated field? There is no way to more quickly tank your career than to get a reputation as the girl that fucks the other guys in class. If you get this reputation in school and it sticks, then a lot of your career progression will be fending off unwanted male attention and dating men who are in a position to help you level up. Most women understand this and try to date away from work. Dick is simply too plentiful to sacrifice your career trajectory for a relationship. It gets easier as you get older to date within your field as you gain reputation. However, some men will always interpret your willingness to date any man in their field as a willingness to have sex with them, too.
Too bad your boyfriend isn’t posting. I would tell him to dump you. So what if he calls his mom for an hour a day. Are you missing that hour of attention? Actually, I am really grateful that both my husband and I were raised by single parents and guess what. We left home both at 17 in different places in the country and had virtually limited relationship with our parents. They didn’t interfere with our lives at all. But he’s married father did. Please do not generalize. He has a relationship with his mother because he wants it so now that you’re married you’re gonna cut them off from his mom? You’re a charmer.
I think that first 911 call is bingo here. It sounds like schizophrenia. Schizophrenia often manifests in delusions that “the government is spying on me” or people are conspiring against them, or aliens are trying to contact them. They suspect their house is bugged, with hidden cameras, microchips implanted into them while they sleep etc. The fact that this first 911 call didn't lead to you getting a call from the police tells me there probably isn't any cameras or spying and it probably is a delusion.
How long were you guys together? Do you know any of her close friends or family? If were me, I'd maybe try to have a conversation with one of them about it just because this is absolutely batshit crazy behavior and I've watched enough true crime to know that people like this turn up missing. I remember watching a documentary on a young woman who went missing after having similar delusions (last CCTV footage of her is her going across her apartment complex parking lot barefoot and in tiny shorts and a tank top, not dressed for the weather).
Now, this is all on the presumption you're completely innocent here. That you did not put any spy software or keylogger on her computer, you don't know any of her passwords, you didn't stick a nanny cam somewhere in her place. Because if you did something even remotely us, that changes the whole time of the story.
Yeah, even when you are into it, restrain yourself anyway and take your time. It may help soothe things if your process is purposely gradual.
Not sure if you'll see this but as a dude the idea of poly is abhorrent to me, and for the same exact reasons and sentiments that you have said. However I also have had 2 friends completely torch their relationships by opening it up. In both instances and im sure your case as well, they DID love each other… so why the hell would they do that??? I talk to my buddy on discord and I can hear it in her voice when she talks at him, she hates him. Thing is that she asked for the open relationship, she thought she wanted that. But then he said yes, and she hates him for it. And we all can feel why. How two people can suddenly devalue each other in an instant…sad.
All I can say is that your husband probably does love you. The second another man actually came near you he would probably have lost his mind, I hope, I mean you know him better than me so whatever. But bear in mind that for some stupid reason, including perhaps all the reddit poly cheer squad members shouting their personal anecdotes. Many people are being fooled into this lifestyle, or fooled into thinking that they want it, when fundamentally most people are not poly compatible. There is a wave of foolishness overtaking this world.
Just… leave some room in your heart for the idea that this man is just really really really stupid because this is pretty heartbreaking. Maybe all his friends were talking about it??!! I dunno…fuck, sorry.
Don't worry he will make sure you won't find out about his cheating.
I guess some guys are just afraid of looking needy or something. I sent her a text and going on a date on Friday