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♥, NEW GIRL, SWEET AND WILD IS READY FOR YOU TO PLAY WITH♥@GOAL GETTING VERY HOT FOR YOU// CHECK MY NEW MEDIA! [Multi Goal]
Date: November 1, 2022
♥, NEW GIRL, SWEET AND WILD IS READY FOR YOU TO PLAY WITH♥@GOAL GETTING VERY HOT FOR YOU// CHECK MY NEW MEDIA! [Multi Goal]
It is a troll, account already banned lol
Poly relationships need trust to work. It is possible to cheat in poly and open relationships. That’s what she has done. You had discussed boundaries as well as how to approach adding someone else. She failed complying to the agreed upon rules, that she herself suggested, and now expects you to be fine with her spending time with the person she broke all the rules with. She says she needs time to prove herself but starts that time off by continuing to hurt you. So she’s broken your trust/cheated on you the first chance she got and isn’t repairing anything. Doesn’t seem remorseful to me.
I don’t see this working out very well, since you don’t seem to actually be poly yourself. So you weren’t exactly comfortable going into this and now this has happened. Is this the kind of relationship you see yourself being happy in? Do you want multiple romantic partners for yourself as well?
Maybe check out the sub r/polyamory. Talk to people there and how they have handled breaches of trust. Hopefully their experience will help you to decide how you want to proceed.
His experience would be very different from this commenters as his PTSD would not be complex. It has been generated from a one off event, not years of abuse or military service. It's a non-complex case.
If hubby refuses any medical care that makes things much more difficult and he could continue to suffer from this for many years to come, the longer you wait the worse it gets.
She knew you were uncomfortable, you tried to give her the space she requested, she took your boundaries and brushed them aside and didn't keep plans with you in favor of an ex bf who she hasn't dated for 3 years and YOU ARE THE ONE TO BLAME?????
DUDE RUN NOW.