You should always be willing to hug her when she needs it? Sounds controlling. You should read “Why does he do that,” by Lundy Barcroft and see if any of it resonates with you. This relationship does not sound healthy and you should be the one to dictate what happens with your body when you choose. Please read it, her behaviour is a massive red flag.
As a gamer for 21 years? (I’m 23 and one of my first memories is playing a video game), 3 hours a week is NOTHING and especially for FIFA where each game on that game is only maybe 15-20 or so minutes. The saying “one more game” can result in many more than just one. OP has great self control, and if this 3 hours per week thing is true, he’s only only playing either a game a day, or at the most 2-3 games a few days a week. His girlfriend is completely overreacting. 3 hours of gaming per week is barely even considered being a gamer (unless your schedule is super busy), that’s like barely even casual numbers, more so that’s a novice amount of time to be playing. I also don’t mean those terms in an insulting way. When I play video games, each session is a minimum of 2 hours, nowadays since I’m very busy I game maybe 8-10 hours a week and that’s still not a lot compared to others.
Yea just leave bro
Yeah I don’t want to be though. Any ideas on a kind way to communicate that?
Space is good, especially safe space.
You should always be willing to hug her when she needs it? Sounds controlling. You should read “Why does he do that,” by Lundy Barcroft and see if any of it resonates with you. This relationship does not sound healthy and you should be the one to dictate what happens with your body when you choose. Please read it, her behaviour is a massive red flag.
As a gamer for 21 years? (I’m 23 and one of my first memories is playing a video game), 3 hours a week is NOTHING and especially for FIFA where each game on that game is only maybe 15-20 or so minutes. The saying “one more game” can result in many more than just one. OP has great self control, and if this 3 hours per week thing is true, he’s only only playing either a game a day, or at the most 2-3 games a few days a week. His girlfriend is completely overreacting. 3 hours of gaming per week is barely even considered being a gamer (unless your schedule is super busy), that’s like barely even casual numbers, more so that’s a novice amount of time to be playing. I also don’t mean those terms in an insulting way. When I play video games, each session is a minimum of 2 hours, nowadays since I’m very busy I game maybe 8-10 hours a week and that’s still not a lot compared to others.