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That‘s amazing. You‘re wise and lucky for finding and keeping her. I love how she kinda already knew. I feel like this shows how deep your relationship must be and how much she cares about you, taking small hints and stuff. You build yourself a wonderful life and you are surrounded by love and care. Whatever anyone did to you, they could‘nt stop you from being happy and living your best life. That‘s inspiring.
Thank you for your advice. And for sharing this, everybody keeps telling me how the right person will surely be, but reading it from someone with similar struggles puts it into perspective.
I am already seeing a therapist and according to her I‘m doing great, but I know that this is only on a daily basis. Trigger me with the wrong stuff and everything just falls apart.
Break up with him. He is so immature that he doesn’t even understand he’s supposed to make you feel good. He doesn’t understand that all joking around is not the same. Maybe he thinks he’s making a joke to get a laugh and laughter is good, right? But he’s always making you the punchline which is hurtful. It’s not a feel good laugh when it’s laughing AT you. You could explain that to him and that it’s better if you two go back to being just friends. Then tell him you’re going to focus on your goals, work and school. If you even have time to date anyone with your busy schedule, it’s going to be someone you can have fun with, who makes you feel good about yourself
“I don’t know how to bring it up in a way that will not make her feel bad.”
To be honest, she fucked up REAL bad. She deserves to feel bad ( not you punishing her, but her realizing how fucked up is what she has done ). Plus I would REALLY reconsider my frienship with such a guy.
Your boyfriend is showing real red flags, some hidden aggression there..
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Leave him if you are able.
He sounds like way more trouble than he is worth.
My partner would have paid double for me to have easy access to the building, with or without a newborn.
That‘s amazing. You‘re wise and lucky for finding and keeping her. I love how she kinda already knew. I feel like this shows how deep your relationship must be and how much she cares about you, taking small hints and stuff. You build yourself a wonderful life and you are surrounded by love and care. Whatever anyone did to you, they could‘nt stop you from being happy and living your best life. That‘s inspiring.
Thank you for your advice. And for sharing this, everybody keeps telling me how the right person will surely be, but reading it from someone with similar struggles puts it into perspective.
I am already seeing a therapist and according to her I‘m doing great, but I know that this is only on a daily basis. Trigger me with the wrong stuff and everything just falls apart.
Break up with him. He is so immature that he doesn’t even understand he’s supposed to make you feel good. He doesn’t understand that all joking around is not the same. Maybe he thinks he’s making a joke to get a laugh and laughter is good, right? But he’s always making you the punchline which is hurtful. It’s not a feel good laugh when it’s laughing AT you. You could explain that to him and that it’s better if you two go back to being just friends. Then tell him you’re going to focus on your goals, work and school. If you even have time to date anyone with your busy schedule, it’s going to be someone you can have fun with, who makes you feel good about yourself
“I don’t know how to bring it up in a way that will not make her feel bad.”
To be honest, she fucked up REAL bad. She deserves to feel bad ( not you punishing her, but her realizing how fucked up is what she has done ). Plus I would REALLY reconsider my frienship with such a guy.