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You did the right thing. Even if he is mad at you give him some time and hopefully he will understand you did what you did because you live him. Besides, him telling you that he wanted to hurt himself may have been him subconsciously or consciously hoping you would help him in some way.
I had a friend who reached out to me in a much more subtle way and I didn’t recognize that it was a plea for help. He ended his life a few weeks later and it’s been one of the biggest regrets of my life. I guess what I’m saying is, the regret and sadness you would experience had you not tried to help him (via contacting his mother or any other means) is far worse than his anger for trying to get him help.
In the end, good on you for contacting his mother even though he told you not to. I hope he gets the help and care he needs to get him through this rough time.
The depressed part was added to the post after I commented. OP I'm glad that you two openly communicated.
Ik how you feel bc I’m the same kind of guy, and she’s using you as a psychologist, and trust me she’ll use you as the settle option, that’s why you gotta leave, because even if she doesn’t demonstrate that she sees you that way, she does, when you leave she’s going to get mad because she won’t be able to control u anymore, she’s basically using ur feelings for her own advantage
Wish it was all make believe.
That dude sucks.
I think you deserve better but if you don't think you qualify… It is what it is
Godspeed
Thank you ❤️ it’s an insecurity of mine, but I need to really put it on the back seat
True. Just thought he might also have the condom issue. Figured might as well put it out there, just in case.
I know EXACTLY what misogyny means. But I guess our responses show who we are as people. I see an inexperienced, rather pathetic girl who is anxious about everything. You see a master manipulator. How very sad for you. And how very sad for anyone in a relationship with you.
I would, but I would need to know what’s changed, why things have changed for her. Ultimately, I think she takes the relationship for granted perhaps and is struggling to make a decision and breaking up and time apart might fix that. The title is perhaps misleading as she said she doesn’t necessarily want an open relationship to begin immediately but thinks she does at one point soon perhaps. (Reading between the lines I’d say she means now!). I appreciate your advice!
Does the police see it that way?
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OP, there are SO many opportunities for remote jobs these days. Data entry, transcription if you're a fast typer, freelancing writing/copywriting if you're a good writer, or account/project management with marketing firms if you like interacting with clients.
I've worked from home for a decade as a copywriter. And although I don't have any facial piercings currently, I do have visible neck tattoos and stretched ears, and my firm has never had a problem with it, and I do speak to clients via Zoom regularly.
Search sites like LinkedIn, Indeed, etc., with Remote as the location.
“up the compliments”
Yes, shower her in what she wants to hear, that'll definitely fix things!!
“It's in our DNA”
Lmao, if it was in our DNA then wouldn't every male act identically?
Um, you should be far more concerned about the fact that this lady started calling you names, “blaming” you for your inexperience, and then having mutual friends try to get you back together… maybe SHE should be reminded what “casual dating” means.
data point? overlap? this is a relationship, not a statistical model ?
Just say that it didn’t go well and you’ll talk when she gets home. Tell her it can wait. Use the time to do whatever needs to be done – apply for jobs, check your finances, etc
No it's not okay! Weed makes it worse omg!!
I'm ten years older than this guy and he's an old man, in the context of pursuing women whose brains are not done developing yet.
You seem like a predator too. Unless you're OP's sockpuppet…
I go out all the time. I could communicate about it better and suggest that time might be best for hanging out with her friend.
Don't respond at all and just don't talk to her. It's over. I'm sorry this happened to you
Yeah I wish he never told me. I'd still be clueless, but bubbly to them. Now I'm just bummed.
Until you have both acknowledged a desire to be in an exclusive relationship, dating other people is acceptable and almost to be expected.
There is no time frame, really. Just when you meet someone that makes it so you don't feel like talking to or seeing someone else.
It’s a long shitty process but two years later, I feel better than I ever did with my ex wife. And to be honest, I’m happy we didn’t have kids and that I don’t have to be tethered to someone for life who clearly doesn’t respect or even care about me. So just think on that my friend.
Agreed. Ace here, more specifically demisexual. It's absolutely ok for OP to leave the relationship because his sexual needs aren't being met. It's ok that he changed his mind over time. Honestly, some don't realize what it's like in the long term on either side. Sometimes you only realize after a while. Neither are bad people, they're just ultimately incompatible in the same way some are when it comes to things like hobbies, personality types, and so on.
OP, if you feel you need to leave you're not a bad person for doing so. Just communicate with her about this.