Anyone who really loves you will respect what's important to you even if they don't agree. That's a mature attitude. He is a manipulator using emotional blackmail. If he's serious about a swinger marriage, gawks at women in front of you, tells you it's his way or the highway, he seems ill equipped for a healthy relationship.
Thanks for comment! She wants to do counseling on her own the couples counseling eventually.
Anyone who really loves you will respect what's important to you even if they don't agree. That's a mature attitude. He is a manipulator using emotional blackmail. If he's serious about a swinger marriage, gawks at women in front of you, tells you it's his way or the highway, he seems ill equipped for a healthy relationship.