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CONTROL TODAY 55 TK / GOAL : ANAL TEASING [GOAL MET]
Date: November 1, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
CONTROL TODAY 55 TK / GOAL : ANAL TEASING [GOAL MET]
So your love language is gift giving and his is not. Which means that he probably doesn't even appreciate the gifts that you do give him. You're dating so you should be able to have a conversation and set a budget or range for gifts… maybe $100 or $150. That's it. Don't go over.
And if you really do love gift giving, why not sponsor a family in need for xmas or give extra to family?
I have always taken perverse satisfaction in NOT giving bullies and angry people the satisfaction that they are looking for so I would simply ignore them and keep walking. I would expect my partner to do the same. Then we would laugh about how much of an insecure douchebag the guy randomly disrespecting us was and laugh.
If you can't see this for what it is, basically her offering herself up to a hostage situation with you, then do try to take the longview. A relationship where you're always paranoid and she's so belly up that you have all her passwords sounds like hell. This just isn't worth it. If you're a decent person you don't want to have her “accounts and passwords, location”. This is the stuff a parent does with a child. It's not the way a functional romance is supposed to work.
Yep. He was working 12 hours a day while she looked after their child, he met someone else (clearly before he left his wife) and now he’s refusing to go to court to get an actual agreement set in place.
I’ve dated three of them because I had a type ? My most recent one was the worst of these and made me want to date outside of my type. Now i’m dating someone secure and i’m having the same amount of love I give given back to me ? It’s scary but I know it’s better for me ❤️
My most recent ex just kept running further and further away the more I wanted commitment. He wanted to travel for long periods of time alone, didn’t want to get a normal job near me so we could get married, pushed everyone away and put them at arms length.
My needs were dismissed and belittled. Every time I brought up a legitimate concern I was gaslit into thinking it was my anxiety and that I was sabotaging the relationship. There literally was no us. I could either go along with what he wanted or leave.
He also used his good deeds against me. Like when he moved to be five minutes away from me but only because it was the only place with cheap enough rent. He was like, “I moved for you and now you have to move to be with me in a completely different city hours away without any sign of commitment or relatively stable income other than yours in the foreseeable future.”
He would’ve done the exact things had I not even been involved with him. I just feel like a ghost who got emotionally invested in someone who won’t give back or let me in. He “loved” me and I was “the most important person in the world” to him but what does that even mean to an avoidant? Im so confused ?
It’s disrespectful not to tell your significant other when you’re gonna be with someone you had a sexual relationship with. It’s not about you trusting her but about her respecting you enough to be completely honest
Gift count and price matching is a contest you can never win.
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I did suggest therapy, and perhaps I wasn’t clear enough – I meant a medication intended to treat anxiety and depression long term. A benzo can help with panic attacks but it seems quite possible that this situation needs regular treatment.
lack of experience combined with poor judgement.
He may be under the illusion there's a magic formula for getting into a relationship. That if he'd done things differently in the past, they would have worked better. Most of the time it's just the wrong person and you can find out faster or slower. There's potentially the situation he becomes the wrong person by being too slow.
That is me calm?
I don’t play about my husband or my marriage, and if someone who knew me for SIX years said some mess like this to me they’d implying I do both, which is a foul assessment of my character. It’s disrespectful to me, my husband, and our marriage.
The disrespect by itself is rude, but it’s also an act of impropriety that’s really, really bizarre. What other married people choose to do is their business, but to jump bad at another married person like this, apropos of nothing, and without their spouse present, is extremely strange.
In another comment OP says sister “clicked with someone online” at this point I’m wondering if the sister “cheated” or what actually happened. She threw a bomb and refuses to now deal with it.
Ha Ha yes they do view her in that way. At least most of the guys.
It was not giving what he probably thought it was going to give.
I haven’t reached out. The last text that’s left says “goodnight :)))” from him.
I feel the same way, unless she’s black out drunk it’s not that very hot to remember to text your partner
4 years of correctional nurse experience here
You want me to believe that you met him on a crocheting elderly party?
Again, your father has all the rights to think what every average person would think about your “boyfriend”.
What? This is the best advice. A trained professional is much better qualified than internet randos spouting “divorce” and “no contact” at the first sign of trouble.
Sorry this is my first time making a post on Reddit and I got a notification that someone commented but I can now view it. I guess it got removed ?
Never stop your business, your education or your life for a potential.
Please be kind when you break up with this woman.
How in the world are his actions going to stimulate her when she literally said he can't initiate? Me personally I'd be on my way out, terrible pity sex every two weeks would have to be a no for me.
Again read the message!!!!!!
He broke up because he felt the two of you were incompatible. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. But he may not be right for you if you and him have different views on porn.
You also said it made him unattractive. But different people have different views. It may be the best call if it's not right for you though. But as much as there are people against porn, plenty of people have no problem with porn. To each their own. But I remember my religious days. Basically all of the men “struggled” with porn.
Also, if it's way too much, he's probably trying to self medicate through it for some other problem.
He scheduled his wedding on the day of her graduation from medical school. That is not a good person.
This is going to sound mean, but..
You cant fix stupid. If you have to give someone an ultimatum like this, you may as well recognize that you aren't very compatible on an intellectual level.