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Date: October 31, 2022
First red flag. Get her to a mental health facility and change your number.
Break up and move on.
I am familiar with this suffering, buddy.
Most likely, he left you on for the same reason you left him on, just neglected to remove. He thought about messaging you on your birthday and decided against it, I would and have obsessed over that too in your position; but at the end of the day he chose against doing so.
The saying goes: “If an ex wanted to talk to you, they would be.” Objectively false, of course, there are a dozen reasons why they wouldn't; but thinking that way doesn't bring any calmness to your life.
The healthy thing to do is to wait until you have the resolve to remove him from your Snapchat, it doesn't have to be right now, you just bite the bullet when you can — unless you've both been actively working on fixing the things that made that breakup so messy, starting over would probably just put you in the same situation anyway — and then you have a sad span of time and probably avoid Snapchat until you can bear to see his name not in your friends list again.
I am familiar with this suffering, buddy.
Most likely, he left you on for the same reason you left him on, just neglected to remove. He thought about messaging you on your birthday and decided against it, I would and have obsessed over that too in your position; but at the end of the day he chose against doing so.
The saying goes: “If an ex wanted to talk to you, they would be.” Objectively false, of course, there are a dozen reasons why they wouldn't; but thinking that way doesn't bring any calmness to your life.
The healthy thing to do is to wait until you have the resolve to remove him from your Snapchat, it doesn't have to be right now, you just bite the bullet when you can — unless you've both been actively working on fixing the things that made that breakup so messy, starting over would probably just put you in the same situation anyway — and then you have a sad span of time and probably avoid Snapchat until you can bear to see his name not in your friends list again.
People are being too hot on you.
I don’t know if I would call it an overreaction, it’s just not addressing the real concern.
In a comment, you wrote something like “would you want to be in a relationship with someone who is friends with someone else they used to be in love with?”
I think that’s the wrong question to begin with. It should be “would you want to start dating someone who is possibly still in love with their friend of 17 years?”
Most people’s answers will be vastly different. I’m also not sure why your bf would share that little nugget with you only after 1 month of dating. That’s too much too soon. Truthfully, at 36-39, i think thinking your each other’s bf/gf is too soon after only 1 month, but we’ll put this aside. Also, I am assuming he volunteered this info on his own?
I think you went to “either choose her or me” to make sure he’s not still in love with her. I think it’s because you were trying to make sure you’re not his plan b or a poorman’s substitute. I understand why that would have been important to find out as soon as possible because:
1) nobody wants to be anybody’s plan b 2) you’ve only known each other for 1 month, so you can’t really say you know the guy enough to fully trust him 3) breaking up is easier after 1 month as opposed to 1 year or more
He picked you, and now you’re wondering if you’re overreacting because you now believe that may be he did fall out of love with her.
I don’t know if your litmus test really proves he is not still in love with her though.
I still don’t understand why he would share that info with you in the first place. I also find it hard to believe that anyone would be willing to let go of a 17 year friendship over a 1 month romance that statistically will likely fizzle out UNLESS it’s because he knows he has to let go of a 17 year old unrequited love and you’ve given him an excuse to do it?
I don’t know. I don’t know you or your boyfriend. I just think your question in this post is wrong and the logic is faulty.
Just be honest about it. Communication is always going to be the best approach. If you want anything at all in this situation to get better it's going to be the answer. Personally I think you have bigger issues here than this porn conversation but it's still something that needs to be discussed. It's a good first little step to get better with communication.