Talk to her. Ask her why she said it. If there is any defensive push back, either get you guys into therapy or break up. I suspect there are some nuances that you either didn't write out or you missed.
Do NOT have a child with a man who told you to kill yourself yesterday. Who is unmedicated and untreated for some of the most difficult mental illnesses to treat. Who just found out he already has a child he isn’t taking care of. How would you want to be on the other side of that, begging for a bit of child support knowing the money is the only contribution he can give? Please don’t do that. You are young and you should only have a baby when you are ready, not because you happened to find out you’re pregnant.
This kinda sounds like lsd to me
Talk to her. Ask her why she said it. If there is any defensive push back, either get you guys into therapy or break up. I suspect there are some nuances that you either didn't write out or you missed.
I could have, but if this is a troll, and I think it is, why would I?
Do NOT have a child with a man who told you to kill yourself yesterday. Who is unmedicated and untreated for some of the most difficult mental illnesses to treat. Who just found out he already has a child he isn’t taking care of. How would you want to be on the other side of that, begging for a bit of child support knowing the money is the only contribution he can give? Please don’t do that. You are young and you should only have a baby when you are ready, not because you happened to find out you’re pregnant.
Sounds like you are just a foodie call to her.