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Martin/Vlad, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 30, 2022
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This man is grooming you for sex with him and to have sex with others. He is currently desensitizing you to sexual experiences by including strangers, introducing suspicious power dynamic play, and exposing you to people you are not attracted to so he can “get off.” I know this may not seem like grooming and that you love him, but he does not love you. He is using you and trying to trap you in a relationship you cannot escape from. This is a textbook example of grooming—especially with the intent to pass a younger person around between people. It may not seem like it, but you are in danger. This is sexual coercion and entrapment. This man is trying to break you.
Are you in contact with family or friends who can help? Does anyone know you're in a relationship with him? Or has he isolated you from a support network? I'm not sure what the situation is, but if there is any possible way to have someone assist you to get out of this situation, I would do so immediately.
I tell you all this from the perspective of someone who was groomed and didn't see the signs at first. He doesn't care about you are love you, OP. He is hurting you and trying to keep you trapped with him. This isn't normal. This isn't love. You deserve better, and you WILL find better. If there is any way you could contact a women's shelter or a domestic abuse hotline, I would do so. Your situation is abuse, and you are in danger. A man who is willing to scream at you is a man who is willing to hit you. A man who is willing to hit you is a man who is willing to kill. Please, please, please contact a third party for assistance in getting out of this situation.
I think that’s perfectly fair
Honestly, as a girl I wouldn’t blame yourself hugely for this, I’m not a fan of live! dating strangers purely because of this, easier to lie about everything, but it’s not the end of the world, and it’s not like she was 13-14, though I would really consider talking to her about how you feel and possibly meeting up with her instead of just continuing a 2 year relationship on-line, especially based on a lie. Though I wouldn’t blame yourself, there wasn’t much you could do
Info: Do you have a daughter? Or are you currently pregnant?
Genetics are weird- I have blue green eyes, my partner has brown eyes. Our 3 children have grey eyes (didn't even know that was a possibility), brown eyes, and green eyes.
Tell him to drop it and that he's being ridiculous. Get a DNA test and a divorce if he won't drop it/ stop acting like a creep
Keep the therapist, drop the guy. Keep people who care about you close to you
Body shaming. That's great way to judge a person. What if he did the same thing to you.
Exactly! My bullshit detector when off the charts on this one! This (ex) friend is clearly trying to be the sacrificial lamb for the wife, her hero so to speak. It’s not hard to feign being shocked and appalled. The dead give away is that this likely hood that she did not send them is unlikely, and with her remaining attitude about it. Most women who are sincerely innocent would have had the same initial reactions, as well as continued discomfort about that level of privacy violation from a so called friend, be freaking out at them to delete the pics, and want to put as much distance as possible with that guy. This woman just wants it all dropped and life carrying on which is highly unrealistic and shows a disrespectful lack of regard for how her and is feeling about all this.
Everyone is different. I personally wouldn’t be mortified by non-nude pictures of myself.
that's a lot imo too. but it all comes down to personal preference. and there's so many external factors like menstruation, medication, etc.
You're being used.
It’s not a self esteem thing. It’s a “I love him more than life itself and if I lose him I’ll be emotionless for the rest of my life” thing
Go out with real people if you want to learn to be social. Social media despite the name isn't very good for practicing these things. You can't even see the person you are talking to so you cant practice reading cues on their face and the tone of their voice.
How long have you been together? Have you formally talked to him about this? If so, and he's still doing it, I'd either leave him if it's early on enough, or insist on having a serious conversation about it. Personally, I wouldn't be ok with my partner wanting to look at them, so this behavior wouldn't even be a discussion after the first time.