It can be very difficult reframing what acceptable is behavior after being in an abusive relationship
Long term abusive relationships cut down our self-worth to the ground and we often blame ourselves for the abuse, or at least say “well i wasn't perfect either”.
I'm glad to see you're leaving him blocked. If you can, read the book “why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft, i think the r/JUSTNO subreddit has a free download in their side bar. Also seek therapy, work on re-learning how to operate outside of an abusive relationship.
It feels that way. My suspicion is that she is tired of having him live with her and she is trying to find a way to get him back into our basement. It’s never going to happen.
I think you need to figure out if he is a deeply closeted gay man or just bisexual.
It can be very difficult reframing what acceptable is behavior after being in an abusive relationship
Long term abusive relationships cut down our self-worth to the ground and we often blame ourselves for the abuse, or at least say “well i wasn't perfect either”.
I'm glad to see you're leaving him blocked. If you can, read the book “why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft, i think the r/JUSTNO subreddit has a free download in their side bar. Also seek therapy, work on re-learning how to operate outside of an abusive relationship.
It feels that way. My suspicion is that she is tired of having him live with her and she is trying to find a way to get him back into our basement. It’s never going to happen.