dude you pushing her was supposed to help how exactly? that girl has years of trauma and resentment built up from brainwashing, arguing with her isn’t going to make that go away in a day.
So, my younger (35) brother is like this. It's an inability or an unawareness of the need to detail out their thought process for others.
Example: my brother has to take his car to the shop. He then calls me and says the engine is misfiring because of some issue with his car door.
Huh? What the actual fuck?!?
So I called the mechanic to find out what exactly is going on. Here's how he got to his fantastic leap of logic…
1.When he bought the car there was a recall on the window motor in the door. His wasn't having issues so never fussed with it.
When his car started misfiring he took it to the shop and the mechanic thought the issue might be related to ANOTHER possible recall and wanted him to take it to the dealership so they could do the work – for free.
His mind heard recall and automatically connected the 2 things and for him the most logical conclusion was that the door recall caused his engine issues (which of course it wasn't)
The easiest way to navigate is to either repeat back what you heard if it's important and follow the line of logic slowly even if it annoys both of you. If it's nothing important then just vague agreements usually get you past the less than relevant information.
Why would you approach her with this? Do you think people can just…stop farting? It doesn’t work that way. Live with it. Or don’t and move out. There’s nothing to be done here
dude you pushing her was supposed to help how exactly? that girl has years of trauma and resentment built up from brainwashing, arguing with her isn’t going to make that go away in a day.
So, my younger (35) brother is like this. It's an inability or an unawareness of the need to detail out their thought process for others.
Example: my brother has to take his car to the shop. He then calls me and says the engine is misfiring because of some issue with his car door.
Huh? What the actual fuck?!?
So I called the mechanic to find out what exactly is going on. Here's how he got to his fantastic leap of logic…
1.When he bought the car there was a recall on the window motor in the door. His wasn't having issues so never fussed with it.
When his car started misfiring he took it to the shop and the mechanic thought the issue might be related to ANOTHER possible recall and wanted him to take it to the dealership so they could do the work – for free.
His mind heard recall and automatically connected the 2 things and for him the most logical conclusion was that the door recall caused his engine issues (which of course it wasn't)
The easiest way to navigate is to either repeat back what you heard if it's important and follow the line of logic slowly even if it annoys both of you. If it's nothing important then just vague agreements usually get you past the less than relevant information.
Why would you approach her with this? Do you think people can just…stop farting? It doesn’t work that way. Live with it. Or don’t and move out. There’s nothing to be done here
Nah he rape you and not only that ain’t no way he didn’t notice you crying and if he didn’t notice he’s weird for continuing while you were crying?