Well unless you misquoted her the comment was showing up drunk. Ie, she thought she’d be drunk by the time she met her friends. But hey you know your relationship best, so if that’s not how your relationship then fine. FWIW, I agree with those who say you’ve done nothing wrong. Compromise means changing things so it suits both parties, not one party changing their plans so the other party doesn’t have to.
You should only have a baby if YOU want it. Not because of guilt or confusion or what he wants. You have to want it. You're going to do most of the “work.” Not to mention, there could come a day that you have to do it without him (if anything happened). What do you feel? Do you like the idea of the baby? Do YOU want it?
Yes, OP. Also watch for a second phone.
Well unless you misquoted her the comment was showing up drunk. Ie, she thought she’d be drunk by the time she met her friends. But hey you know your relationship best, so if that’s not how your relationship then fine. FWIW, I agree with those who say you’ve done nothing wrong. Compromise means changing things so it suits both parties, not one party changing their plans so the other party doesn’t have to.
You should only have a baby if YOU want it. Not because of guilt or confusion or what he wants. You have to want it. You're going to do most of the “work.” Not to mention, there could come a day that you have to do it without him (if anything happened). What do you feel? Do you like the idea of the baby? Do YOU want it?