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PinkMagic9512 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 28, 2022
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PinkMagic9512 Public Chat Channel
Hey, don't sell yourself short. You can be a white knight *and* not be perfect. Mental illness and drug use are not moral failures. (Crime might be a problem, but let's leave that for now.)
That said, lying is a moral failure, and that includes omitting important truths. You haven't known her that long, which normally would excuse you from full disclosure, but if you are talking about a relationship, that swings you back toward sharing something.
At this point, you don't have to go into minute detail, but letting her know you have a checkered past (or other deliberately vague reference) will let you see how she reacts.
You also don't have to confess things you've done, but you can be more open about your own values. If you say something like, “I honestly don't think all drug use is bad. It's your body; you can put into it what you want, or not,” you can talk about ideas rather than experiences.
Same thing with mental illness. You can talk about your experiences and feelings rather than label them with a diagnosis. Depression might feel like the blues, low energy, lack of hope. “Some days it's nude to get out of bed, you know?” Chances are good that she will.
If she is naive as you say, these conversations might be the first time she's encountered these ideas, and she might need time and talk to fine tune her values.
If you've seen the movie “Grease”, the “bad girl” character sings a song called, “There Are Worse Things I Could Do”. If your girl knows it, she might already have an inkling that you can have a few vices without being a cheater or a liar.
No one is making her do anything. She is making the choice but is saying she is making it because I made the report.
Oh I'm sure she's a decent person, but I said a decent partner, who celebrates your wins, mourns your losses, loves you for who you are rather than who they want you to be.
A retreat sounds like an excellent idea, always! 🙂
Oooooh I knew I was right about your friends in my other comment. Absolute fucking clown shoes
This is fake
“No” does not mean:
“Wait 10 minutes and drop your dick onto my back.”
He heard your No loud and clear. But he was still horny.
Communication is key here.
See how his progress is going ect. But also do it and try to make the emphasis on if he's feeling better rather than when he's going to he “back to normal”.
When he's feeling better the rest should hopefully work itself out.