Sounds like she already has chosen the friend over OP. You speak as if it would be lose-lose. She threw a fit when he talked about working less hours. He has already lost.
You were in the same league once upon a time and now you’re out of his league. He’s scared he’s going to lose you now.
If you still love him let him know you love him just as he is, but he needs to cut out the negging because you won’t tolerate it. Set a time limit for behavioral change in your head and if he can’t rise to the occasion, move on.
But men like sex so it's fine. Duh. All these comments are so dumb. If the role was reversed…
Yeah I feel like “empath” means “I see suffering and want to involve myself and bask in the attention this other person is getting.”
Sounds like she already has chosen the friend over OP. You speak as if it would be lose-lose. She threw a fit when he talked about working less hours. He has already lost.
He sexually assaulted you. You did NOTHING wrong by reacting in self defense and fighting back.
And honestly, ild dump someone who sexually assaults me and gets mad that i dared to fight back
You were in the same league once upon a time and now you’re out of his league. He’s scared he’s going to lose you now.
If you still love him let him know you love him just as he is, but he needs to cut out the negging because you won’t tolerate it. Set a time limit for behavioral change in your head and if he can’t rise to the occasion, move on.