OP, if you give in, line up lots of helpers to stay with her so you can leave when your wife is a B, no matter how often. Either she will realize her B-ness or you will be safe from her abuse. A win either way.
Maybe I’m completely off base, but I’m wondering if his regret is that he would have to explain to his Christian Fundamentalist family that he’s getting a divorce after only one year.
You think it's cheating, so for you it's over.
Also Google “sunk cost fallacy”.
Sure second that ☝
OP, if you give in, line up lots of helpers to stay with her so you can leave when your wife is a B, no matter how often. Either she will realize her B-ness or you will be safe from her abuse. A win either way.
If I’m the results of a rape how can i live with this. I would kill myself i think
Why are you with this person that is so unconcerned with your boundaries that you never want to be intimate with him?
Sounds like he's assaulting you regularly. Which is 100% possible even in a relationship. You have repeatedly told him to stop and he doesn't.
Please,for your own safety, leave this relationship.
What do you mean what do you do? He fucked up, lied about it, and instead of owning up to it and working to earn your trust back, he disappeared.
What you do is end this relationship.
You don't know our life and what I do for her. Please stop commenting on my post. I do not need your insights
Maybe I’m completely off base, but I’m wondering if his regret is that he would have to explain to his Christian Fundamentalist family that he’s getting a divorce after only one year.