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Let`s make a great hot show, ♥ I`m with my bestie sweetieanna #new #kiss #couple [GOAL MET]
Date: October 28, 2022
Let`s make a great hot show, ♥ I`m with my bestie sweetieanna #new #kiss #couple [GOAL MET]
Cannot agree with you.
First, I am so sorry that happened to you. Second, I'm so glad you're with loved ones and away from him w/ a roof over your head. This will greatly enhance your odds of not having to go back (because it's very much a “have to” and not a “want to” go back) to your abusive spouse.
For your peace of mind, it's best to focus on your healing rather than trying to make sense of a deeply sick, extremely abusive partner. There really is no way to explain or rationalize that behavior. Easier said than done, but try not to find closure in understanding him.
“I'm sorry that I super-glued your right hand to your pubic hair while you were asleep, and placed a small bucket filled with eggs by the foot of your bed where I estimated your feet would be once you woke up and realized that your right hand was glued to your pubic hair. Also I apologize for hiding all the soap and scissors so that you would have a harder time freeing your hand… which was glued to your… ahm. Anyways, I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me. So, can I get an invite to your wedding?”
He wasn't chasing you because you were “mature”. I promise you weren't more mature than women his own age. He chased you because you were naive enough to believe him. He could play into the “mature” angle and you ate it up. This doesn't speak negatively about you. It speaks volumes about him. And now you're getting older and setting boundaries and he doesn't like that. But your sister is 18, ripe for manipulation.
I’m very sorry to hear that, it must be horrible for her to have went through such a thing and also for you as a child to whiteness or know that was happening.
Your mother 100% needs therapy. This is not something you can tackle/help without a trained professional. However what you can do in the meantime is reassure her that you love her and that you will see her Christmas after you stay at your boyfriends.
I only asked about the cultural background as you had mentioned she was sticking to traditional values.
Good luck OP
Oh that kid is gonna be all sorts of fucked up if you stay together. The therapy bills alone…
In todays news of dads who give horrible advice….. I had to stop listening to my dad’s input and stopped allowing him to converse and try to advise my boyfriends when I realized that he had a warped perception of what was acceptable beahaviour from men and what wasn’t. Cheating was apparently acceptable. Abuse? Well, he would ask me and my sister what WE did to warrant that. I stopped listening to his advice a while back. You’re not wrong for asking for someone to respect your time and boundaries, especially when it comes to your property. Even if your dad is paying for it, (i don’t know for sure,) you’re driving it.
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I am curious how he exactly throws your cat. Any kind of toss can be described as throwing by people. Is it aggressive and forceful?
It’s so very cringe to date a 19 year old when your 28. Shows you haven’t grown much since that age, honesty.
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Lol please take your right wing bs out the door-make sure to not let the door hit you in the pussy on the way out
He calls you pathetic, makes you feel bad for a normal request, and won’t comfort you when you’re scared. My advice? Find a new boyfriend
1) You're attractive.
2) Sorry about the loss of your nephew.
3) If he doesn't respond, don't panic.
Usually weird with people who are secure in themselves sooo I yea I get it
What is so attractive about a man old enough to be your father acting like a teenager?
Yes, her I.age as someone else girlfriend or a woman who is single and on the market.
Come on man, does this seem normal to you? What do YOU think you should do?
Is he violent? I divorced my ex, changed locks, filled paperwork out, and when he found out about a new guy he broke in through a window and broke his nose and assaulted me.
She might legitimately be afraid of him running into you.
Now that you've decided not to go on the trip without your husband, the two of you should plan a trip yourselves. Use this as a chance to give him affirmation that you want to be with him first and foremost. That doesn't mean you shouldn't spend time with your sister, who seems to need you more lately. Perhaps a girls' trip or weekend together would help. But you are very wise to not make a habit of traveling without your husband. I mean, who “uninvites” their spouse from a trip they would both enjoy?
I had a grandmother like this. Well not the language stuff but very strict. I used to call her a drill sergeant. I hated visiting her. Luckily she lived halfway across the country. My other grandma was the stereotypical grandma that always had ice cream and bought tons of toys for Christmas and birthdays.
Tell HIM to go make you a sandwich
This is not going the way OP thought it would.
Ok you have 2 additional children but your daughter feels sad when his father is having one . WHY THE FUCK . You are manipulating her for sure
CONTEXT : i read OP's comment and found she had 2 more children and so much more
A lot of guys would kill to be in your place, stuck playing games for hours on end when they'd rather be in bed with a GF.
You need to work out some kind of compromise with her, so most nights you come to be with her when she wants.
If you feel this much resentment, break it off and move on. Don't waste more time waiting for her to grow up.
Just be direct and tell her you've grown apart and you don't see a future together any longer. Then have a plan for one of you moving out. It's probably going to have to be you that moves out, so make sure to get your name off everything.
This is NOT gonna get better. In my experience
So what? She has no say in this? She is a grown woman who decided to be better than her scumbag husband. She is making a conscious choice with all the information at her disposal. Let's not talk like Sami has no agency here. She is making a choice that most people wouldn't make, but it still is her prerogative.
I bet it felt like a slap in the face to your mom to hear that after everything she’s done. Is he being treated for his depression?
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me too! all his threads are ridiculous!
I hate to be this blunt, but dude…grow a spine. It didn't “make things worse” for any one but her, but you just keep letting her turn it around on you.
Stop being a victim, get some self respect and stand the f- up for yourself. If she denies it and screams, walk out and stay with a friend.
Also you absolutely need to consult with a divorce lawyer. Buckle up, because the shit storm is coming. She has no problem lying to your face and trying to make you thi o you're the crazy one, this is NOT your life partner. The sooner you come to terms with all do this, the sooner you can move on and find a decent human to spend time with.
Simply don't add any ages next time rather than lying.