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In what way is something wrong?
Her husband has said the sister staying with them three times in two years of marriage plus however long they dated is reason for divorce. Maybe if these stays are months at a time, but I'm getting the impression of days to maybe a couple weeks. Maybe I'm misreading it. If you have more info, let me know.
Put yourself in her shoes. How would you feel watching her wanting to hang out with someone she was in love with in the past?
Leave now, and when you do, tell her that when she’s robbed, to go somewhere else for sympathy.
The men in you life aren't making things complicated, your actions are. At least take some responsibility.
Like I said, in the moment – in front of his family – smile and say thank you. Then get a private moment to give it back to him and let him know you cannot accept the gift.
Honestly, the problem isn't just the price. It's the amount of thought he put into it (and shoes are a kind of personal thing because you have to know that person's shoe size and then get the color they'd like, etc.) that makes it… kinda creepy. Also, there's also the joy he would get in seeing her wear the shoes he put so much time and effort and money into buying for her.
It's like if your old, married, balding, pot-bellied boss gifted you a pair of fuck-me pumps from Frederick's of Hollywood in just your size and favorite color “just because” on a random Tuesday. Oh, and you're pretty sure said boss has a crush on you that you do not reciprocate.
You know damn well if you ever wore those shoes into the office, dude is going to think you're interested. You're going to get an extra large smile, wink and an unexpected back rub from said boss. Whether you're attracted to him or not.
That's the position OP has put herself in. Doesn't matter if they're sports shoes she's always wanted… accepting them sends a message to the giver, who happens to be her boyfriend's brother.
Yeah, I got that wrong. My point still stands. Even more so. She was asking him repeatedly to dinner, so he KNEW she was pursuing him. This isn’t a guy playing dumb anymore. Him saying no clearly wasn’t enough if this woman is still comfortable sending 4am messages knowing he’s with his partner.
She hasn't asked him out to dinner, they have dinner together at work as a team when they have to work late
It literally did not. Your just perverted af
He should get help for his mental state when he can't currently afford to eat.
Okay.
Unfortunately, separating may be the only option we have. She is in therapy for anxiety, but refuses couples counseling for this thinking its not an issue.
The majority of the posts here are telling you where they would draw that line.
I'm not saying don't give her options, but if she really doesn't see how toxic her ex is to your relationship, then i don't really see if you have any other choice.
Lol he’s not going to stay if he didn’t want kids. Hope you’re prepared to be a single mom. Won’t even touch the whole engaged at 22 to someone 7 years older. I’m tired
How about we try this instead.
If your 12 year old daughter told you that she was dating a 19 year old man, how would you feel about it?
She belongs to the streets. She will later co plain that no man takes her seriously and that she is a saint, it is always the same.
You'll get over it with time and never trust another person blindly again.
It's really not though. It's disrespectful to go out in public dressing for attention like you're still single, when you're not single.
I realize that concepts like “class”, “respect”, “grace” and “dignity” are lost on a generation of feminist-brainwashed women but just because she wants to display her assets for the world to see doesn't mean he has to tolerate it.
There are still SOME women who remember how to compose themselves with class in public. OP needs to drop this one and go find one of those.
Girl, stop. You already know the answer, you wrote it out yourself. He has replaced his mother with you. You are not a girlfriend. You are a mommy. This is not a healthy relationship. He’s never going to change. Break up.
Girl, stop. You already know the answer, you wrote it out yourself. He has replaced his mother with you. You are not a girlfriend. You are a mommy. This is not a healthy relationship. He’s never going to change. Break up.