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Date: October 27, 2022
I know hes had history of gfs cheating on him. Which i can definitely understand his apprehension. But he is the one most times that brings up things on his terms/his wants, like a house. Thank you so much for the advice, I appreciate it!
You bring up trust yet you went through his phone. Not saying what he did was right, maybe he ended up at the strip club after a few cocktails and it wasn’t a planned event, he would tell you in the morning. Possibly. You broke the trust first instead of asking how his night went then having to go thru his phone. As for the money, I’d be pissed for blowing $800 on a lap dance. Absolutely, Christmas or not, this is not the time to spend money on shit. He came home, from what I read he didn’t lie, cheat… your insecurities are your own and not his fault or problem. He can’t read your mind to know how you’re feeling after pushing out another kid. Communication is key here. Maybe explaining or having a talk about your insecurities, he would help to make you feel better or secure in what you have. I would have you’d feel that way anyway because that’s how it should be in a relationship. Sounds like you got mad for a boys night out more than $800 which should be the real issue. Did he lie? Did he say he didn’t go to a club? How you feel and react, can only be controlled by you. If he lied then I agree trust is lost, now he needs to pick up shifts to recover the money he lost. Work on yourself to get you where you feel better.
How is your 2020 phone 8 years old? Please tell me you can do math better than that.
We both agreed that this is the first and last time this has happened and if it happens again then the relationship will end.
That means that next time she has the urge to sleep with someone else, she simply won't ask first.
Go with him!
It's more telling that you don't find it weird that she goes straight to crying or passive aggressive “jokes” when she doesn't get access to his body. She starts this by invalidating his agency to his body, pokes fun at him and/or turns on the water works then expects him to comfort her for something she is doing wrong.
He's like, telling her no, she's like, using crying as a weapon when he is expressing his emotions? Like???
I’m a huge fan of ice skating. Even if one or both of you are terrible. Actually, especially if one or both of you are terrible. It’s fun to learn and glide and support each other AND you can really easily be as close or as far apart as comfort allows. Followed by warm drinks at the house/apartment/dorm. Other things that are okay: museums/art openings. Museums usually have student rates and they always have talking points. Art openings/gallery shows usually have free wine, and… similarly easily offer up something to talk about.
Good luck out there.
why do you want to save this? she threatens, uses, and manipulates you. can you imagine dealing with that for the rest of your life? can you imagine bringing a child into this?? let her sleep with her ex, good riddance. although some counseling for yourself might be a good idea. you've been with her for over a year and a half and it's clear she's fucked with your head pretty bad if you can't see how awful she's treating you.
It just takes time unfortunately. Focus on things that make you happy and surround yourself with supportive friends and family.
I am pregnant, 33 weeks. Large baby. Tons of aches and pains, and I work. If she had a medical reason (yes there are legit medical reasons, even early in pregnancy)I totally support that. Also, depending on her age how does she intend to get medical care? Medicaid? Remember once that baby is born you will need to have a financial solution since any social welfare programs the baby uses also usually try to collect money from the father if not married. This is my way if saying, you need to really set expectations now, and have serious discussions about expectations and living standards.
The problem seems to be that he is.
So if you had a girlfriend/wife and she told you she was assaulted, you would assume she could be lying and actually cheated on you? I really hope you're single.
Two years is usually the point in a relationship where the “honeymoon phase” is wearing off, and you don't feel like you have that “spark” that first attracted you to each other. You're not going to feel that need to be together all the time or jump each other every second. 😉 In a good relationship, love evolves – you find happiness in each other's company in a different way. You are excited not so much by the novelty and passion but by the future that you see together – the plans you make and watching them come to pass one by one. So if you find yourself looking down that road and not liking what you see, that is a sign that your love isn't going to evolve. It's tough – I was with a guy for six years when I reached that point, and letting go was REALLY hard (we were living together and had always planned to get married). But today I am very glad I finally admitted to myself that we had no future together. My advice – look into that future. Figure out if you like what you see.
If she got onto this because of a coworker suggesting she needed one, you need to explain to her that if someone says this directly to you they don’t have your best interests at heart. The coworkers opinion is jaded by the fact she has had plastic surgery and would love to influence others to join her. This will make what she did more of the norm if she can get others to join her.
I mean, it's fucking 3 days man….it's not neglecting…the sub is very intense.
Do you truly mean it? Jessica
She wants to replace his wife in the family tree and she isn't even step mum yet. That's psychotic. Not to even talk about her violence. She's abusive.
I just blocked her. Thank you for the advice
Please do.
Honestly the fact that he keeps saying he was joking means he’s too much of a coward to have a real relationship with.
Useful for knitting too. So many pretty variegated yarns.
He doesn't care about you or the dogs.
You need to figure out why you allow him to treat you like crap.
You deserve better!
Well if the conversation we’re having continues, that might just be the case.
Your cousins right and you’re wrong. Your boyfriend is a fetishizing creep that was flirting with a 15 year old. You are worth so much more than being with a creepy dude like that. That’s not true love, it’s grooming.
Jesus christ ? That escalated quickly. I wasn't expecting that but all I can think I fucking RUN!. this guy is a lunatic.
It doesn’t need to be a big conversation, but yes, say something.
Ask how she is and then if she’s well, just say something like “great, well just to update you on me, so and so is pregnant. This means I’ll need to plan for some time off closer to her due date and I’ll of course let you know. Let me know what kind of help you might need and we can arrange something.”
I think this is good. You inform her but you bring it back to business. You have a professional relationship to maintain after all.
There's a huge difference between going after someone in their early 20s than to start dating someone who's 30. Especially if you like in OP's case have known someone since they were a baby.
It's not normal to be attracted to someone you have seen grow up when you're old enough to be their parent. That's where the fear that OP has been groomed from a very early age comes from.
So while you may not have groomed your partner and you relationship might be a healthy one, there's a pretty big chance that it's vastly different for OP.
Not much trust in this relationship. Usually when people say “I know I shouldn't have gone thru his phone” they offer some semi-plausible reason why they were suspicious. You just did it out of idle curiosity, it seems.
I don't find his brief message to this girl troublesome. If I were he, I would be unhappy being confronted about it. Using Tinder to get a feel for a new area seems like the wrong way to go about it, but whatever.
Stop using a person's private electronic data against them. The world would be a better place without these cell phones!
Asexuality isn’t an issue and it doesn’t mean “lack of sex drive/libido”
We’re just not sexually attracted to either sex, just like straight people aren’t attracted to the same sex and gay people aren’t attracted to the opposite sex
See I assumed eating pussy bc of the way OP worded it lol. Like if the girl was morning maybe they were having sex but all I can think is she’s hearing slurping noises ???
Buy headphones?
Thanks for clarifying. I really appreciate your advice and insight. I do need better resources because I’m struggling. It’s not his fault at all but I’m not doing so good and when that happens I am desperate for extra security in my romantic relationships
She chose the shrink. You choose your lawyer. If she is making fun of you and this guy buys her flowers, the relationship with her is over. Protect yourself and your daughter first.
Maybe ask him to read this list and the talk about it? There’s no way he has gotten grad every day before you. Honestly, his “you don’t get it if you don’t ask” and waving his d*ck one now, one later attitude? It’s like he’s 13 and just figured out how he can make himself feel good. He’s a dialing a horn bag teenager. Good luck ??
They know the gun is awful. What's also awful is that his gf rather be right then alive.
Not every girl likes oral, just like not every man particularly enjoys being blown… there are people like this
Start working out & encouraging him to go with you. Start eating better to encourage him to eat better. Be the change you seek?
How long have you been together?
I feel the exact same way. OP is acting like it's all the girlfriends fault, yet he's clearly complacent with the abuse. Why even get a cat knowing your partner has allergies?